assalamualeikum wbt
as for today, nuthin' much going on except spending time with roomies :-) then went to Shaz's house: she prepared dinner for us! tq shaz! Next thing, everyone went back to their very own room and get ready for first day of school tomorrow, alhamdulillah.... I'll have an exam on Wednesday but haven't study much yet...
I got something on mind rite now -- will be making a very big decision soon. Hopefully it will bring only good to me and others, insyaAllah... been receiving comments about me being wacky and etc. person. Yeah, you can't tell one's personality until you met and have communication with that person. I guess how I wrote doesn't necessarily reflects who I am. I could be different, right? I might just wanna impress people with my writing or the other way, 'Allahualam...
Didn't go to Open House today :-(
I think I did write about 'Life is A Wheel' before. It really is true. Sometime you're opposite the ground but sometime you're exactly on the ground and you could feel the earth, it could be hurtful, unpleasant, wet or anything but being further from the ground doesn't mean that you're comfortable enough, kan? You will never also manage to grab 2 things at once with one hand, sometime even with both hands. Few things need both hands whereas few things need only one.
I believed myself isn't capable of being a good person without support and help from me and people around me. I am a complete failure when it comes to perfection. I tried harder everydays but I always loose to me and people around me.
"And O my people! Ask forgiveness of your Lord, and turn to Him (in repentance): He will send you the skies pouring abundant rain, and add strength: to your strength: so turn ye not back in sin!" Hud:52
Sunday, March 30, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
just received Discover Malaysia cds from Bard. Unfortunately those cds aren't working very well, so we (me, Ijan and Mazu) watched Ijan's on her computer. Intresting, a successful and....
dunno how to start my words... above all, am frustrated and guilty... was I the person who made all these worsen. Why didn't I use what I had to stop it from happening? was I that weak? or was I the same? sungguh! menitis air mata melihat semua itu. Tahu tak, disaat kita berjoget, bergurau senda bertepuk tampar berpeluk-peluk ada hamba Allah ditempat lain, disaat lain sedang mengerang diambil nyawanya, mengerang melahirkan seorang bayi yang suci, menahan lapar dan lain-lain. Ya betul, mungkin ada juga hamba Allah di tempat lain yang sedang berjudi, bermaksiat dsb tp ape bezanya kita dengan mereka? Tak, am not that 'alim' or whatever they called it... tapi.. 'Allahualam...
niza messaged me earlier, missed her so much!!! when will I see you again my dear friend? There's a lot to say but none did even pass through my lungs. Rindu niza, rindu usrah, rindu kak lisa, rindu kak lea, rindu suasana seperti dulu...
just received Discover Malaysia cds from Bard. Unfortunately those cds aren't working very well, so we (me, Ijan and Mazu) watched Ijan's on her computer. Intresting, a successful and....
dunno how to start my words... above all, am frustrated and guilty... was I the person who made all these worsen. Why didn't I use what I had to stop it from happening? was I that weak? or was I the same? sungguh! menitis air mata melihat semua itu. Tahu tak, disaat kita berjoget, bergurau senda bertepuk tampar berpeluk-peluk ada hamba Allah ditempat lain, disaat lain sedang mengerang diambil nyawanya, mengerang melahirkan seorang bayi yang suci, menahan lapar dan lain-lain. Ya betul, mungkin ada juga hamba Allah di tempat lain yang sedang berjudi, bermaksiat dsb tp ape bezanya kita dengan mereka? Tak, am not that 'alim' or whatever they called it... tapi.. 'Allahualam...
niza messaged me earlier, missed her so much!!! when will I see you again my dear friend? There's a lot to say but none did even pass through my lungs. Rindu niza, rindu usrah, rindu kak lisa, rindu kak lea, rindu suasana seperti dulu...
Saturday, March 29, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
raihan, usamah and seri from CMU is here! glad to meet them; long time no see! :-) Received a call from Kak Nur in Milwaukee. Missed her and others but am not in the right condition to travel -- heh really? yeah... about my attendance and other da'wah stuff... hmm... how do I say this? I said it once before, "rehat sekejap..." then a friend said, "mana ada rehat dalam berdakwah..." dunno lah... but I need to contemplate myself... and my life. 'Allahualam...
raihan, usamah and seri from CMU is here! glad to meet them; long time no see! :-) Received a call from Kak Nur in Milwaukee. Missed her and others but am not in the right condition to travel -- heh really? yeah... about my attendance and other da'wah stuff... hmm... how do I say this? I said it once before, "rehat sekejap..." then a friend said, "mana ada rehat dalam berdakwah..." dunno lah... but I need to contemplate myself... and my life. 'Allahualam...
Thursday, March 27, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
hmm... received email from Sidra, I got nominated for a position in MSA. She asked me to choose a position to run for but haven't think of anything or even decide to accept the nomination yet. my body temperature lowered today alhamdulillah... left with stuffy nose and mild coughs.
in discussion today, we had 4 speakers from outreach (LGBT group) -- Terry, Roger, Lessie and Harry: 3 gay men 1 bisexual woman. One of them was married for 3 years and his 'husband' is now in London. The other 3 aren't in any kind of relationship right now due to career. I just kept myself as I don't know what to ask but most of the questions wandered around how they survived in the community, when did they first came out and etc.
a little tazkirah from myqalam.cjb.net (didn't get permission for this)
Apa Yang Mencantikkan Wajah?
Al-Ahnaf Bin Qais ialah seorang ulama yang terkenal di zamannya. Suatu hari seorang pemuda dari suku Tai'yi berkunjung ke rumahnya. Rumah Al- Ahnaf memang sentiasa dikunjungi oleh orang ramai terutamanya anak- anak murid dan sahabat handainya. Mereka yang datang itu adalah untuk tujuan berlajar dan menuntut dari beliau. Bagaimanapun kedatangan pemuda dari suku Tai'yi ini amatlah menarik perhatian Al-Ahnaf.
Al-Ahnaf mendapati pemuda ini sangat segak dan tampan, berbeza dari pemuda yang sebaya dengannya. Lalu Al-Ahnaf pun bertanya,
"Wahai anak muda! Ada kamu menghiasi wajah mu dengan sesuatu?"
Jawab pemuda,
"Memang benar, saya ada menghiasi wajah saya dengan sesuatu iaitu jika saya bercakap saya tidak pernah berbohong. Kalau ada orang yang sedang bercakap, saya hanya duduk diam dan mendengar. Jika saya berjanji, saya akan tepati janji itu dan jika saya diberikan amanah, saya tidak mengkhianatinya."
Mendengar jawapan yang bernas itu maka berkatalah Al-Ahnaf,
"Benar akan kata-kata mu itu wahai anak muda. Sungguh engkau telah menghiasi diri mu dengan akhlak mulia."
'Allahualam...
hmm... received email from Sidra, I got nominated for a position in MSA. She asked me to choose a position to run for but haven't think of anything or even decide to accept the nomination yet. my body temperature lowered today alhamdulillah... left with stuffy nose and mild coughs.
in discussion today, we had 4 speakers from outreach (LGBT group) -- Terry, Roger, Lessie and Harry: 3 gay men 1 bisexual woman. One of them was married for 3 years and his 'husband' is now in London. The other 3 aren't in any kind of relationship right now due to career. I just kept myself as I don't know what to ask but most of the questions wandered around how they survived in the community, when did they first came out and etc.
a little tazkirah from myqalam.cjb.net (didn't get permission for this)
Apa Yang Mencantikkan Wajah?
Al-Ahnaf Bin Qais ialah seorang ulama yang terkenal di zamannya. Suatu hari seorang pemuda dari suku Tai'yi berkunjung ke rumahnya. Rumah Al- Ahnaf memang sentiasa dikunjungi oleh orang ramai terutamanya anak- anak murid dan sahabat handainya. Mereka yang datang itu adalah untuk tujuan berlajar dan menuntut dari beliau. Bagaimanapun kedatangan pemuda dari suku Tai'yi ini amatlah menarik perhatian Al-Ahnaf.
Al-Ahnaf mendapati pemuda ini sangat segak dan tampan, berbeza dari pemuda yang sebaya dengannya. Lalu Al-Ahnaf pun bertanya,
"Wahai anak muda! Ada kamu menghiasi wajah mu dengan sesuatu?"
Jawab pemuda,
"Memang benar, saya ada menghiasi wajah saya dengan sesuatu iaitu jika saya bercakap saya tidak pernah berbohong. Kalau ada orang yang sedang bercakap, saya hanya duduk diam dan mendengar. Jika saya berjanji, saya akan tepati janji itu dan jika saya diberikan amanah, saya tidak mengkhianatinya."
Mendengar jawapan yang bernas itu maka berkatalah Al-Ahnaf,
"Benar akan kata-kata mu itu wahai anak muda. Sungguh engkau telah menghiasi diri mu dengan akhlak mulia."
'Allahualam...
Wednesday, March 26, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
I want to say sorry to many people, dunno if I ever have the courage to do so... saya mintak maaf pada semua atas apa-apa kesalahan saya secara sedar atau tidak, halalkan segalanya.... am very very sorry... if I were to die, please forgive all my bad.
the changes of level of estrogen and progestrone in my body really affects me... I could easily cry while scanning at my work place, and also while in the bus... masyaAllah.... besar sungguh kejadianMu ... berikan aku kekuatan menempuh hidup yang mendatang, Ya Allah ampunilah dosa-dosaku ya Allah... tak sanggup menanggung azab nerakaMu ya Allah... ameen
Both articles below are for me to read and for any of you who is intrested and ready:
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said, A Muslim who is killed in a battle is a martyr, (dying in) plague is artyrdom, a woman who dies while delivering a baby is a martyr. [Ahmad, Daarimee, Tiyaalisee, authenticated by Al-Albaanee]
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said, The martyrs are seven, other than the one who is killed in the Way of Allaah, ta`aalaa:
- One who dies of plague,
- one who drowns,
- one who dies of pleurisy,
- one who dies of stomach ache,
- one who dies due to burning
- one who dies under a demolition (by accident)
- a woman who dies with a baby in her womb
[Maalik, Aboo Dawood, An-Nasaaee, Ibn Maajah, Ibn Hibban, Haakim, Ahmad. Authenticated by al-Albaanee]
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said:
- "Getting killed in the Path of Allaah ta`aalaa is martyrdom,
- [death in] confinement during childbirth is martyrdom,
- [death by] getting burned [by accident] is martyrdom,
- [death by] drowning [by accident] is martyrdom,
- [death due to] tuberculosis is martyrdom,
- [death due to] stomach ache is martyrdom."
[Tabaraanee, Ahmad, authenticated by al-Albaanee]
and
It is established from the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, that he informed us of a number of clear signs that a person has concluded his life upon good, and we ask Allaah, the One free of all imperfections, that He grant us that. So any person who dies in one of these ways then it is glad tidings for them, and how excellent this is:
(1) Pronouncing the Shahaadah (i.e. La ilaaha illallaah) when dying.
(2) Dying with sweat upon the brow.
(3) Dying on the night preceding or the day of Friday.
(4) Martyrdom upon the battlefield. [This martyrdom, may Allaah grant it to us, is to be hoped for by everyone who prays for it
sincerely, even if he is not able to die upon the battlefield, as occurs in the authentic hadeeth]
(5) Death due to plague.
(6) Death due to stomach illness.
(7) Death by drowning.
(8) Death due to a building falling upon him.
(9) Death of a woman during pregnancy due to the child.
(10) Death through consumption/tuberculosis.
(11) Death whilst defending the Deen or one's person.
(12) Death whilst defending one's property from robbers.
(13) Death whilst defending the frontiers of Islaam.
(14) Death whilst doing a righteous action.
(15) Death in a fire.
People's Praise of the Deceased
(1) If a group of truthful Muslims speak in praise of the deceased, their number being two or more of the people of piety and knowledge
who lived near to and knew the deceased, then Paradise is assured for him.
(2) If a person dies at the time of an eclipse of the sun or moon, then that does not indicate anything. The belief that it shows
the importance of the deceased is a false superstition of the times of Ignorance.
kullu am wa antum bikhair ... insyaAllah
I want to say sorry to many people, dunno if I ever have the courage to do so... saya mintak maaf pada semua atas apa-apa kesalahan saya secara sedar atau tidak, halalkan segalanya.... am very very sorry... if I were to die, please forgive all my bad.
the changes of level of estrogen and progestrone in my body really affects me... I could easily cry while scanning at my work place, and also while in the bus... masyaAllah.... besar sungguh kejadianMu ... berikan aku kekuatan menempuh hidup yang mendatang, Ya Allah ampunilah dosa-dosaku ya Allah... tak sanggup menanggung azab nerakaMu ya Allah... ameen
Both articles below are for me to read and for any of you who is intrested and ready:
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said, A Muslim who is killed in a battle is a martyr, (dying in) plague is artyrdom, a woman who dies while delivering a baby is a martyr. [Ahmad, Daarimee, Tiyaalisee, authenticated by Al-Albaanee]
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said, The martyrs are seven, other than the one who is killed in the Way of Allaah, ta`aalaa:
- One who dies of plague,
- one who drowns,
- one who dies of pleurisy,
- one who dies of stomach ache,
- one who dies due to burning
- one who dies under a demolition (by accident)
- a woman who dies with a baby in her womb
[Maalik, Aboo Dawood, An-Nasaaee, Ibn Maajah, Ibn Hibban, Haakim, Ahmad. Authenticated by al-Albaanee]
The Prophet, salaallaahu `alayhi wa sallam said:
- "Getting killed in the Path of Allaah ta`aalaa is martyrdom,
- [death in] confinement during childbirth is martyrdom,
- [death by] getting burned [by accident] is martyrdom,
- [death by] drowning [by accident] is martyrdom,
- [death due to] tuberculosis is martyrdom,
- [death due to] stomach ache is martyrdom."
[Tabaraanee, Ahmad, authenticated by al-Albaanee]
and
It is established from the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, that he informed us of a number of clear signs that a person has concluded his life upon good, and we ask Allaah, the One free of all imperfections, that He grant us that. So any person who dies in one of these ways then it is glad tidings for them, and how excellent this is:
(1) Pronouncing the Shahaadah (i.e. La ilaaha illallaah) when dying.
(2) Dying with sweat upon the brow.
(3) Dying on the night preceding or the day of Friday.
(4) Martyrdom upon the battlefield. [This martyrdom, may Allaah grant it to us, is to be hoped for by everyone who prays for it
sincerely, even if he is not able to die upon the battlefield, as occurs in the authentic hadeeth]
(5) Death due to plague.
(6) Death due to stomach illness.
(7) Death by drowning.
(8) Death due to a building falling upon him.
(9) Death of a woman during pregnancy due to the child.
(10) Death through consumption/tuberculosis.
(11) Death whilst defending the Deen or one's person.
(12) Death whilst defending one's property from robbers.
(13) Death whilst defending the frontiers of Islaam.
(14) Death whilst doing a righteous action.
(15) Death in a fire.
People's Praise of the Deceased
(1) If a group of truthful Muslims speak in praise of the deceased, their number being two or more of the people of piety and knowledge
who lived near to and knew the deceased, then Paradise is assured for him.
(2) If a person dies at the time of an eclipse of the sun or moon, then that does not indicate anything. The belief that it shows
the importance of the deceased is a false superstition of the times of Ignorance.
kullu am wa antum bikhair ... insyaAllah
Monday, March 24, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
felt so empty tonite, returning to Quran al Kareem filled me alhamdulillah. I remembered a friend told me about throwing himself out of his community, hope I could go with him... away from everything, start new life in the right path... hurted my finger yesterday while cutting the chicken, it's just a small cut -- could you imagine the Serb who sloughtered the Bosnian? nauzubillah... "moga dirahmatiNya ameen..."
felt so empty tonite, returning to Quran al Kareem filled me alhamdulillah. I remembered a friend told me about throwing himself out of his community, hope I could go with him... away from everything, start new life in the right path... hurted my finger yesterday while cutting the chicken, it's just a small cut -- could you imagine the Serb who sloughtered the Bosnian? nauzubillah... "moga dirahmatiNya ameen..."
Sunday, March 23, 2003
Friday, March 21, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
I told Pat that I wanted to work for 30 hours this week but I ended up working only for 15 hours. I didn't go to work on Wednesday and Thursday, Wednesday for my laziness and Thursday, the first day of WAR AGAINST IRAQ -- dun felt so secure to go out that day. I wish I could talk to the people I wanted to talk to... people who are far away from here... :-(
I didn't even touched my books all these days... so, what did I do? 'Allahualam... made myself busy remembering my oldies, my families, thinking my sins, trying to be good girl, trying to be good friend to bad friends -- are there any bad friends? nooo... they aren't bad, they're just different : if I couldn't accept the differences, why should they? kan?
got raised in my paycheck alhamdulillah... lucky me to tell Sandy about my hours or I'll stuck with same old wage till the end. ALHAMDULILLAH
who's fault? the war I mean, some Iraqis were happy when Saddam's palace was destroyed, some soldiers surrendered and some US and British's soldiers were dead outside the battle field... and their parents back here said "he's my only son..." . Didn't u learned the risks before letting him go? well, couldn't say much as I'm not in their stand though my dad used to be a soldier. He's not there when my bro was born. "Ya Allah lindungilah keluargaku dari sebarang bencana, berilah keamanan kepada keluargaku ya Allah... ameen"
know what; I've been wearing the same shirt all week -- hehehehe... dun judge me! it was cold outside so am not sweating! I think I'd better get to my school works or I'll be in trouble next week. Bought some baby cloths at Walmart for sister. Will send it later...
wish I could be home now with mak, abah, mekmah, arif, eka and mamat and no one else. Wish things would be as it was before -- missed all those wonderful time before that guy came into her life. Not that I hate him, but I wanted it to be the same again, just as it was...
this article is intresting:
Need to Love Someone, Is That Wrong?
Love can mean many different things, it can be a wonderful experience, which touches our deepest emotions.. It is a quiet understanding, mutual confidence,sharing, and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present it hopes for the future, and it does not brood over the past. It's the day-in and day-out chronicle of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories, and working toward common goals. If you have loved in your life, it can make up for the many things that you are missing. That is the image of Love that I have in my mind. Does that sound so evil Is it wrong to wish to have a soul mate a confidant a friend a lover a spouse in one whom you share your inner most deepest thoughts? To see someone who truly impresses you in their character, personality and their honesty, and wish you can be with them forever? Is it wrong to love someone like that? Is it?
Yet when we find enough courage to publicly act on our love by either talking to our parents or the girl's parents, we suddenly get a bitter dose of reality that we were too naïve and idealistic in our intentions. However to the majority of people think of them as ridiculous and not valid in the real world. Have they forgotten that they themselves have been in the same situation not so long ago?
It is so very sad for me to see that we have to suffer unmarried life due to UN-Islamic social factors. We must blame our un-Islamic social customs and materialistic outlook that cause some men and women to remain unmarried. Many young people or their parents have very high expectations for their spouses. They make very difficult standards of education, profession, wealth or physical features .The result is that such people remain unmarried or others do not marry them because they do not meet those standards. We Muslims must emphasize that best criterion according to Islam is good character, and judge a person on him or her character alone rather than family, social standing etc.
The Prophet -peace be upon him- said,
"If someone whose faith and morals you trust makes a proposal of marriage to you then marry him, otherwise there will be trials and much corruption in the land" .
As Muslims it is also our duty to help our Muslim brothers and sisters to get married. Allah says in the Quran,
"And help to get married those among you who are single or the virtuous ones of your slaves, males or females. If they are in poverty Allah will give them means out of His grace. For Allah encompasses all and knows all things." (Al-Noor 24:32)
--> be extra careful folks, a good guy doesn't last forever, though there are some BUT not all! dun miss anything, check his background and all -- it's a good practice insyaAllah...
I told Pat that I wanted to work for 30 hours this week but I ended up working only for 15 hours. I didn't go to work on Wednesday and Thursday, Wednesday for my laziness and Thursday, the first day of WAR AGAINST IRAQ -- dun felt so secure to go out that day. I wish I could talk to the people I wanted to talk to... people who are far away from here... :-(
I didn't even touched my books all these days... so, what did I do? 'Allahualam... made myself busy remembering my oldies, my families, thinking my sins, trying to be good girl, trying to be good friend to bad friends -- are there any bad friends? nooo... they aren't bad, they're just different : if I couldn't accept the differences, why should they? kan?
got raised in my paycheck alhamdulillah... lucky me to tell Sandy about my hours or I'll stuck with same old wage till the end. ALHAMDULILLAH
who's fault? the war I mean, some Iraqis were happy when Saddam's palace was destroyed, some soldiers surrendered and some US and British's soldiers were dead outside the battle field... and their parents back here said "he's my only son..." . Didn't u learned the risks before letting him go? well, couldn't say much as I'm not in their stand though my dad used to be a soldier. He's not there when my bro was born. "Ya Allah lindungilah keluargaku dari sebarang bencana, berilah keamanan kepada keluargaku ya Allah... ameen"
know what; I've been wearing the same shirt all week -- hehehehe... dun judge me! it was cold outside so am not sweating! I think I'd better get to my school works or I'll be in trouble next week. Bought some baby cloths at Walmart for sister. Will send it later...
wish I could be home now with mak, abah, mekmah, arif, eka and mamat and no one else. Wish things would be as it was before -- missed all those wonderful time before that guy came into her life. Not that I hate him, but I wanted it to be the same again, just as it was...
this article is intresting:
Need to Love Someone, Is That Wrong?
Love can mean many different things, it can be a wonderful experience, which touches our deepest emotions.. It is a quiet understanding, mutual confidence,sharing, and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present it hopes for the future, and it does not brood over the past. It's the day-in and day-out chronicle of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories, and working toward common goals. If you have loved in your life, it can make up for the many things that you are missing. That is the image of Love that I have in my mind. Does that sound so evil Is it wrong to wish to have a soul mate a confidant a friend a lover a spouse in one whom you share your inner most deepest thoughts? To see someone who truly impresses you in their character, personality and their honesty, and wish you can be with them forever? Is it wrong to love someone like that? Is it?
Yet when we find enough courage to publicly act on our love by either talking to our parents or the girl's parents, we suddenly get a bitter dose of reality that we were too naïve and idealistic in our intentions. However to the majority of people think of them as ridiculous and not valid in the real world. Have they forgotten that they themselves have been in the same situation not so long ago?
It is so very sad for me to see that we have to suffer unmarried life due to UN-Islamic social factors. We must blame our un-Islamic social customs and materialistic outlook that cause some men and women to remain unmarried. Many young people or their parents have very high expectations for their spouses. They make very difficult standards of education, profession, wealth or physical features .The result is that such people remain unmarried or others do not marry them because they do not meet those standards. We Muslims must emphasize that best criterion according to Islam is good character, and judge a person on him or her character alone rather than family, social standing etc.
The Prophet -peace be upon him- said,
"If someone whose faith and morals you trust makes a proposal of marriage to you then marry him, otherwise there will be trials and much corruption in the land" .
As Muslims it is also our duty to help our Muslim brothers and sisters to get married. Allah says in the Quran,
"And help to get married those among you who are single or the virtuous ones of your slaves, males or females. If they are in poverty Allah will give them means out of His grace. For Allah encompasses all and knows all things." (Al-Noor 24:32)
--> be extra careful folks, a good guy doesn't last forever, though there are some BUT not all! dun miss anything, check his background and all -- it's a good practice insyaAllah...
Tuesday, March 18, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
began this week with working for 5 and 1/2 hours. It went well alhamdulilah. While waiting for number 4 bus, I met Laura and Effa and they told me that they saw Hakim and bunch of people (people from Purdue maybe they said) on State Street. I asked if there was any girl? and they said yes there were few girls. Ohhh, Niza's face came through my mind. I really really want to meet her. Have lots to say... felt so sad, I called Shaz and she said she forgot to tell me about them coming. It is myself to blame, no one else.
Yep, if Saddam doesn't come out of Iraq within 48 hours, there'll be war. But u know what, there isn't any different, if he does get out of his country or if he stays, the troops will attack! or worst, takes control of the country. I guess the second solution is even worst! who do not want independent? 'Allahualam...
talked to my mom for hours today. I guess the school break turn me into one homesick gurl... with my sister's pregnancy and everything, I become worried... who doesn't? she's my sister and will always be! friends; well they turn away when u're in trouble or when u don't do what they like to do, u know what I mean... In Hasnah's case, I'm not suprised though overwhelmed. They shouted for sisterhood/brotherhood but they acted individualistic or could I say biased? 'Allahualam... think again! OK
In the quran;
"They ask thee concerning (things taken as) spoils of war. Say: "(Such) spoils are at the disposal of Allah and the Messenger: so fear Allah, and keep straight the relations between yourselves: obey Allah and His Messenger, if ye do believe." Al - Anfal:1
oh, I have a question (please, if anyone knew or wants to argue, please do so in my chatbox)
I learned about the pshycological aspect of human life span, from birth until death. In early life, children tend to be homosocial, which means that they like to play or socialize with their own gender, separating girls from boys. But this unlearn behavior gone by time and later they change into heterosexual relationship. My question is, are the Muslim community a homosocial community? The women separate themselves from men, aren't they? By stereotype, this kind of social behavior be gone after the parent decide their partner, though it's kind of rare cases nowadays (They want to choose their own partner, fall in love first and then get married). So, the homosocial behavior in Muslim community does fade away as they become older (because most people get married when they're older). Is my argument acceptable? can anyone explain? 'Allahualam...
began this week with working for 5 and 1/2 hours. It went well alhamdulilah. While waiting for number 4 bus, I met Laura and Effa and they told me that they saw Hakim and bunch of people (people from Purdue maybe they said) on State Street. I asked if there was any girl? and they said yes there were few girls. Ohhh, Niza's face came through my mind. I really really want to meet her. Have lots to say... felt so sad, I called Shaz and she said she forgot to tell me about them coming. It is myself to blame, no one else.
Yep, if Saddam doesn't come out of Iraq within 48 hours, there'll be war. But u know what, there isn't any different, if he does get out of his country or if he stays, the troops will attack! or worst, takes control of the country. I guess the second solution is even worst! who do not want independent? 'Allahualam...
talked to my mom for hours today. I guess the school break turn me into one homesick gurl... with my sister's pregnancy and everything, I become worried... who doesn't? she's my sister and will always be! friends; well they turn away when u're in trouble or when u don't do what they like to do, u know what I mean... In Hasnah's case, I'm not suprised though overwhelmed. They shouted for sisterhood/brotherhood but they acted individualistic or could I say biased? 'Allahualam... think again! OK
In the quran;
"They ask thee concerning (things taken as) spoils of war. Say: "(Such) spoils are at the disposal of Allah and the Messenger: so fear Allah, and keep straight the relations between yourselves: obey Allah and His Messenger, if ye do believe." Al - Anfal:1
oh, I have a question (please, if anyone knew or wants to argue, please do so in my chatbox)
I learned about the pshycological aspect of human life span, from birth until death. In early life, children tend to be homosocial, which means that they like to play or socialize with their own gender, separating girls from boys. But this unlearn behavior gone by time and later they change into heterosexual relationship. My question is, are the Muslim community a homosocial community? The women separate themselves from men, aren't they? By stereotype, this kind of social behavior be gone after the parent decide their partner, though it's kind of rare cases nowadays (They want to choose their own partner, fall in love first and then get married). So, the homosocial behavior in Muslim community does fade away as they become older (because most people get married when they're older). Is my argument acceptable? can anyone explain? 'Allahualam...
Friday, March 14, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
nothing much happen today. Since cs class was cancelled for today, I went to work early in the morning. Everybody at work was really careful when talking to me or talking to each other. They never get into discussion about the current war situation. Well, actually I talked to Pat once but just with her. I knew Russell is majoring in History and I think he knows if not much, a bit about what is happening. But they all are wonderful people. Got many projects coming in and I am still working on World War I project which left me with 3 more issues to scan and tons to cropped and leveled. Not to mention quality controlling, OCRing and making derivatives... ohhh it takes forever!
went to Pizza with mazu and kept admiring at the cinamon breads on buffet bar. We ordered only bread and personal pan shrimp pizza. Alhamdulillah ... went to music class, listened to 'little big band' performing few jazz songs. Nice... then went back home and eat and eat and eat. Never stop eating! Dave's mom called -- She's the kindest and sweetest women I ever met here. Love her so much. Dave is nice too... (I know you're reading my blog Dave... hehehe)
so what's up? I chatted with my sis back home; she told me abah ade 'kencing manis' or diabetes ... That'll explain my mom complaint's about my dad's appearance. She said that abah lose too many pounds... I'd be suprised she said. "Ya Allah, lindungilah keluargaku ya Allah... ampunilah dosaku, kedua ibu bapaku, selamatkanlah mereka didunia dan diakhirat.. ameen"
hopefully war against Iraq will not happen. Really really want to go back home.. to see my family... my mak, my abah, my sister, my brother, my atuk, my wan, my tok ki, my aunts and my uncles... wants to see everybody... insyaAllah
what event took place during this month? Let's figure it out insyaAllah
The Second Pledge of Al - Aqabah
Mus`ab bin `Umair, the Prophet’s deputy, fulfilled his mission successfully, which led to the increase of the number of Muslims in Yathrib.
In the following year, which was the 13th year after the Prophet’s mission, Mus`ab returned to the Prophet (peace be upon him) to inform him of the success he had achieved and the positive attitude the people of Yathrib showed towards Islam. He further told him that a delegation from Yathrib would come to Mecca to meet him. Thus, a delegation composed of 73 men and 2 women attended for this purpose and the meeting was secretly held in Mina during the Days of Tashriq (the first three days of `Id Al-Adha). Al-`Abbas bin `Abdul-Muttalib, who was then a polytheist, attended the meeting to be sure of the safety of his nephew, i.e. the Prophet (peace be upon him).
The participants pledged allegiance to the Prophet (peace be upon him), which was known as the “Second Pledge of Al-`Aqabah”. It was also called the “Pledge of Fight,” as it stipulated, among other things, that the people of Yathrib were responsible for defending the Prophet (peace be upon him) when he immigrates to them against any evil. They would sacrifice their souls, women and children for his safety.
After the conclusion of the pledge, other considerations, such as the arrangements of the Prophet’s immigration to Yathrib and the duties of its people towards him, including providing him shelter and living, were agreed upon.
The people of Yathrib showed brilliant examples of generosity, magnanimity and sacrifice in their treatment with their immigrant brother Muslims.
[source: al-islam]
nothing much happen today. Since cs class was cancelled for today, I went to work early in the morning. Everybody at work was really careful when talking to me or talking to each other. They never get into discussion about the current war situation. Well, actually I talked to Pat once but just with her. I knew Russell is majoring in History and I think he knows if not much, a bit about what is happening. But they all are wonderful people. Got many projects coming in and I am still working on World War I project which left me with 3 more issues to scan and tons to cropped and leveled. Not to mention quality controlling, OCRing and making derivatives... ohhh it takes forever!
went to Pizza with mazu and kept admiring at the cinamon breads on buffet bar. We ordered only bread and personal pan shrimp pizza. Alhamdulillah ... went to music class, listened to 'little big band' performing few jazz songs. Nice... then went back home and eat and eat and eat. Never stop eating! Dave's mom called -- She's the kindest and sweetest women I ever met here. Love her so much. Dave is nice too... (I know you're reading my blog Dave... hehehe)
so what's up? I chatted with my sis back home; she told me abah ade 'kencing manis' or diabetes ... That'll explain my mom complaint's about my dad's appearance. She said that abah lose too many pounds... I'd be suprised she said. "Ya Allah, lindungilah keluargaku ya Allah... ampunilah dosaku, kedua ibu bapaku, selamatkanlah mereka didunia dan diakhirat.. ameen"
hopefully war against Iraq will not happen. Really really want to go back home.. to see my family... my mak, my abah, my sister, my brother, my atuk, my wan, my tok ki, my aunts and my uncles... wants to see everybody... insyaAllah
what event took place during this month? Let's figure it out insyaAllah
The Second Pledge of Al - Aqabah
Mus`ab bin `Umair, the Prophet’s deputy, fulfilled his mission successfully, which led to the increase of the number of Muslims in Yathrib.
In the following year, which was the 13th year after the Prophet’s mission, Mus`ab returned to the Prophet (peace be upon him) to inform him of the success he had achieved and the positive attitude the people of Yathrib showed towards Islam. He further told him that a delegation from Yathrib would come to Mecca to meet him. Thus, a delegation composed of 73 men and 2 women attended for this purpose and the meeting was secretly held in Mina during the Days of Tashriq (the first three days of `Id Al-Adha). Al-`Abbas bin `Abdul-Muttalib, who was then a polytheist, attended the meeting to be sure of the safety of his nephew, i.e. the Prophet (peace be upon him).
The participants pledged allegiance to the Prophet (peace be upon him), which was known as the “Second Pledge of Al-`Aqabah”. It was also called the “Pledge of Fight,” as it stipulated, among other things, that the people of Yathrib were responsible for defending the Prophet (peace be upon him) when he immigrates to them against any evil. They would sacrifice their souls, women and children for his safety.
After the conclusion of the pledge, other considerations, such as the arrangements of the Prophet’s immigration to Yathrib and the duties of its people towards him, including providing him shelter and living, were agreed upon.
The people of Yathrib showed brilliant examples of generosity, magnanimity and sacrifice in their treatment with their immigrant brother Muslims.
[source: al-islam]
Thursday, March 13, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
a friend send this to our MISG mailing list:
Singapore, February 2003: Juliana Yasin's spacious high-rise apartment has an all-white interior and a stunning view of Singapore's skyline. But what catches my attention is a lone portrait of a nude woman sitting with her legs spread wide in a casually defiant, sexually charged pose. I'm no prude when it comes to art, but the drawing isn't what I'd expected to find in the home of a practicing Muslim woman. Yet Yasin professes to be as engaged with her religion as she is with her career as a performance artist. Her life melds the two; why wouldn't her home?
She prays occasionally, eats halal food, and fasts during Ramadan (or tries to). She wore a head scarf in her youth and has gone on prehajj pilgrimages to Mecca and Medina. Yet, while retaining her identity as a Muslim, she has also been deeply involved in discovering her identity as a woman. Her work reflects that duality. In the past, she has pasted clippings from Playboy magazine onto a fellow performer's nude body. In Yasin's most controversial work, The Veil, she cloaked herself entirely in black and hid her wide-set cheekbones and full lips behind Islamic masks that she had found in Dubai. These masks traditionally served to confirm a woman's chastity and mark her as her husband's property. That Yasin, who stopped wearing her scarf during her university years in Australia, was saying something else was made clear by the sign she held: THE SUBJUGATION OF WOMEN IS A WORN-OUT HABIT IN SAUDI ARABIA.
The Veil played in Singapore, Thailand and Germany, but it was her hometown Muslim community that was most scandalized by its content. The island state's only Malay newspaper criticized her for casting Islam in a bad light, and the Islamic Religious Council complained to the theater group staging the performance—but took no further action. In a letter to the paper's editor, Yasin tried to explain that her goal has been to question the rigid definitions of being a Muslim woman in the modern age. "It's not about religion," she says, "It's about culture. I think it's cruel to make women wear this mask. I'm a Muslim, but the Koran doesn't say you have to veil. That's a man-made law." Islam advocates modesty, and Koranic interpretations state that men are superior to women. It doesn't take long with Yasin to see that these are not tenets to which she ascribes. "I do believe in God," she says, "but there are some laws I can't get a handle on, like on divorce and segregation. I find these things fundamentally unfair." When pushed to explain how she balances the demands of her faith and her craft, Yasin is hard pressed to come up with an answer. In the end she says simply, "I'm an artist. I am a woman, a human being, getting to know myself and my body. What's wrong with that?" She laughs heartily, then adds, "But sometimes I wonder, 's--- what am I doing?'"
In her foyer, she has a photograph of herself with her boyfriend of three years, an Englishman with whom she now lives. Remembering my own Catholic mother's admonitions not to marry outside the church, I asked Yasin how her family receives her mixed-race, cross-faith (he's a Protestant) relationship. "If I'm going to get married, I'm going to have problems [with my dad]," Yasin admits. But she says her father—who supports her career—tolerates the coupling for now (Yasin's late mother, who was Chinese, converted to Islam for her Malay husband's sake). "I want my boyfriend to convert, but he doesn't want to and I don't want to force him," she sighs. After all, had she accepted the labels others tried to put on her, Yasin never would have discovered herself as an artist, a woman and a Muslim. Combining those powerful but oft-diffuse aspects of her persona might just be her most accomplished work.
source: TIME ASIA
--> this is the second time I heard that there's no verse in the Quran which stated about women have to wear veil instead to wear modestly... the first one was from a video about an interview with Dr. Leila Ahmad. She confidently said that women don't have to wear veil/hijab and she supported her words with saying that even Rasulullah's wife don't wear veil during the time. Still, I need more time to do at least analyze those saying or refer to the Quran again and again. 'Allahualam....
a friend send this to our MISG mailing list:
Singapore, February 2003: Juliana Yasin's spacious high-rise apartment has an all-white interior and a stunning view of Singapore's skyline. But what catches my attention is a lone portrait of a nude woman sitting with her legs spread wide in a casually defiant, sexually charged pose. I'm no prude when it comes to art, but the drawing isn't what I'd expected to find in the home of a practicing Muslim woman. Yet Yasin professes to be as engaged with her religion as she is with her career as a performance artist. Her life melds the two; why wouldn't her home?
She prays occasionally, eats halal food, and fasts during Ramadan (or tries to). She wore a head scarf in her youth and has gone on prehajj pilgrimages to Mecca and Medina. Yet, while retaining her identity as a Muslim, she has also been deeply involved in discovering her identity as a woman. Her work reflects that duality. In the past, she has pasted clippings from Playboy magazine onto a fellow performer's nude body. In Yasin's most controversial work, The Veil, she cloaked herself entirely in black and hid her wide-set cheekbones and full lips behind Islamic masks that she had found in Dubai. These masks traditionally served to confirm a woman's chastity and mark her as her husband's property. That Yasin, who stopped wearing her scarf during her university years in Australia, was saying something else was made clear by the sign she held: THE SUBJUGATION OF WOMEN IS A WORN-OUT HABIT IN SAUDI ARABIA.
The Veil played in Singapore, Thailand and Germany, but it was her hometown Muslim community that was most scandalized by its content. The island state's only Malay newspaper criticized her for casting Islam in a bad light, and the Islamic Religious Council complained to the theater group staging the performance—but took no further action. In a letter to the paper's editor, Yasin tried to explain that her goal has been to question the rigid definitions of being a Muslim woman in the modern age. "It's not about religion," she says, "It's about culture. I think it's cruel to make women wear this mask. I'm a Muslim, but the Koran doesn't say you have to veil. That's a man-made law." Islam advocates modesty, and Koranic interpretations state that men are superior to women. It doesn't take long with Yasin to see that these are not tenets to which she ascribes. "I do believe in God," she says, "but there are some laws I can't get a handle on, like on divorce and segregation. I find these things fundamentally unfair." When pushed to explain how she balances the demands of her faith and her craft, Yasin is hard pressed to come up with an answer. In the end she says simply, "I'm an artist. I am a woman, a human being, getting to know myself and my body. What's wrong with that?" She laughs heartily, then adds, "But sometimes I wonder, 's--- what am I doing?'"
In her foyer, she has a photograph of herself with her boyfriend of three years, an Englishman with whom she now lives. Remembering my own Catholic mother's admonitions not to marry outside the church, I asked Yasin how her family receives her mixed-race, cross-faith (he's a Protestant) relationship. "If I'm going to get married, I'm going to have problems [with my dad]," Yasin admits. But she says her father—who supports her career—tolerates the coupling for now (Yasin's late mother, who was Chinese, converted to Islam for her Malay husband's sake). "I want my boyfriend to convert, but he doesn't want to and I don't want to force him," she sighs. After all, had she accepted the labels others tried to put on her, Yasin never would have discovered herself as an artist, a woman and a Muslim. Combining those powerful but oft-diffuse aspects of her persona might just be her most accomplished work.
source: TIME ASIA
--> this is the second time I heard that there's no verse in the Quran which stated about women have to wear veil instead to wear modestly... the first one was from a video about an interview with Dr. Leila Ahmad. She confidently said that women don't have to wear veil/hijab and she supported her words with saying that even Rasulullah's wife don't wear veil during the time. Still, I need more time to do at least analyze those saying or refer to the Quran again and again. 'Allahualam....
Wednesday, March 12, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
received TIME and JUMUAH magazines this evening. In TIME, the cover page shows a picture of Army General Tommy Franks, commander of the U.S. forces confronting Iraq. Inside, it presents mostly about war on Iraq and little on President Bush trying to lobby other countries to support him. In JUMUAH, the writers still talking on issue such as Muharram, marriage, how to raise a child and etc. -- aren't we worried? along Library Mall this morning, as I walked to Memorial Library, there were people holding newspaper with headline about uranium misused by Bush -- what's wrong?
have been fasting this few days, alhamdulillah it went well for me, though in all my classes, the person who sat beside me was eating. Today in Soc class, Prof. Hyde talked about Attraction, Love and Intimacy. Lots of theories were presented and the one that caught my attention was the Sternberg's Theory which states that there are 3 components of LOVE: Intimacy (emotional closeness), Passion (motivation/drive component) and Decision/Commitment (cognitive). He drew these 3 components in a triangle shape. If one triangle isn't match his/her partnet, conflict might occurs.
It does apply to our relationship with The Creator, Allah swt kan? Intimacy -- feeling close, Iman, taqwa, Passion -- refering and reciting the Quran, daawah, Decision/Commitment -- amal, istiqamah... it's there, only then people refound it... 'Allahualam...
alhamdulillah I finished building site for MISGHelwa, though it is still 'empty' but glad it's already up... check it out @ MISGHelwa.
received TIME and JUMUAH magazines this evening. In TIME, the cover page shows a picture of Army General Tommy Franks, commander of the U.S. forces confronting Iraq. Inside, it presents mostly about war on Iraq and little on President Bush trying to lobby other countries to support him. In JUMUAH, the writers still talking on issue such as Muharram, marriage, how to raise a child and etc. -- aren't we worried? along Library Mall this morning, as I walked to Memorial Library, there were people holding newspaper with headline about uranium misused by Bush -- what's wrong?
have been fasting this few days, alhamdulillah it went well for me, though in all my classes, the person who sat beside me was eating. Today in Soc class, Prof. Hyde talked about Attraction, Love and Intimacy. Lots of theories were presented and the one that caught my attention was the Sternberg's Theory which states that there are 3 components of LOVE: Intimacy (emotional closeness), Passion (motivation/drive component) and Decision/Commitment (cognitive). He drew these 3 components in a triangle shape. If one triangle isn't match his/her partnet, conflict might occurs.
It does apply to our relationship with The Creator, Allah swt kan? Intimacy -- feeling close, Iman, taqwa, Passion -- refering and reciting the Quran, daawah, Decision/Commitment -- amal, istiqamah... it's there, only then people refound it... 'Allahualam...
alhamdulillah I finished building site for MISGHelwa, though it is still 'empty' but glad it's already up... check it out @ MISGHelwa.
Monday, March 10, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
was watching news at 6 -- WOW! Bush really wants war against Iraq, the government claimed that Iraq needs new leader who would 'change' them, and yesterday in 60 Minutes show, the program shows about life of the King of Qatar, who is considered successful as he made alias with US and ask help from them. He is also proud that his wife is breaking incest taboo by showing her face in public and help the King develop their region.
why WAR? why not round table meeting? why not by voting? does Iraq really really have nuclear weapons? what about other countries? why Iraq? to North Korea, your turn awaiting -- just few steps away! Malaysia? possible attack on Malaysia? any possibility? huhuhu let's hide our oil production before they get the infos in hand. nauzubillah...
about pregnant women:
1. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebaikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.
2. Dua rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
3. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada siang hari.
4. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari.
5. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah s.w.t.
6. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.
7. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia daripada dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.
8. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid.
9. Wanita yang memberi minum susu kepada anaknya daripada badannya (susu badan) akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yangdiberikannya.
10. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun), makamalaikat-malaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajibbaginya.
11. Jika wanita memberi susu badannya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.
12. Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.
13. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila diahiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat.
was watching news at 6 -- WOW! Bush really wants war against Iraq, the government claimed that Iraq needs new leader who would 'change' them, and yesterday in 60 Minutes show, the program shows about life of the King of Qatar, who is considered successful as he made alias with US and ask help from them. He is also proud that his wife is breaking incest taboo by showing her face in public and help the King develop their region.
why WAR? why not round table meeting? why not by voting? does Iraq really really have nuclear weapons? what about other countries? why Iraq? to North Korea, your turn awaiting -- just few steps away! Malaysia? possible attack on Malaysia? any possibility? huhuhu let's hide our oil production before they get the infos in hand. nauzubillah...
about pregnant women:
1. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebaikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.
2. Dua rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
3. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada siang hari.
4. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari.
5. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah s.w.t. mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah s.w.t.
6. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.
7. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia daripada dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.
8. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid.
9. Wanita yang memberi minum susu kepada anaknya daripada badannya (susu badan) akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yangdiberikannya.
10. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun), makamalaikat-malaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajibbaginya.
11. Jika wanita memberi susu badannya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.
12. Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.
13. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila diahiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat.
Education on Islam possible with proper context
by Adnan Mirza, Guest Columnist
March 03, 2003
Over the course of the last few years, I've begun to notice a few rather upsetting trends prevailing in our society. Among them: horrendously mind-numbing television programming, the multiplication of strip malls at exponential rates, the collaboration of some of hip-hop's greatest MC's with their less-than-mediocre "bling-bling" counterparts, and the most recent addition to the list -- the all-together dubious post 9-11 proliferation of "experts" on the Islamic faith who are so willing to explain to the public what this bizarre religion is all about.
Initially, it was my intention to write this piece on what it means for me to be Muslim in America, but the approaches I was considering seemed a bit contrived; my ideas on it ended up being sort of a "Look, I'm just like you, but Muslim" type thing. I could mention how I hate parking enforcement and wish that Fox had never cancelled The Family Guy to run crap like Joe Millionaire. But is this what makes me an American? I used to not think so. I used to think that many of the principles I adhere to as a result of Islam were also ones that I adhered to because I'm an American (you know, commitment to human rights, democracy, peace and freedom).
Quite suddenly, however, this mental link I made in junior high came crashing down not long after the Twin Towers did. At first I noticed them on Fox News, then CNN, ABC, NBC and, yes, even MTV. It descended from the sky like a strange weather pattern, showering Islam "experts" into the studios of every major media outlet.
Drawing upon their vast and infinite knowledge of Islam, each one (e.g. Daniel Pipes, Mitchell Bard, Thomas Friedman, Samuel Huntington, Bernard Lewis, Steven Emerson) seems to feel more than qualified individually to take the faith of over one billion people and simplify it without hesitation into one all-encompassing monolithic entity. Their attempts to argue "What Went Wrong" (Lewis) or "The Clash of Civilizations" (Huntington) are utterly disgusting and repugnant attempts to make unfounded generalizations about the political, social, cultural and linguistic heritages of Muslims spread out all over the world.
The sweeping and antagonistic views presented by these authors and their "expert" colleagues completely fail to take into account the breadth, scope and diversity of the Muslim population as a whole, thus serving as reaffirmation for the existing misinformation regarding Islam.
One needn't look far to spot one of these gems; on my last visit to a local Borders book store, the new arrivals were filled with books like "Militant Islam Reaches America," "American Jihad: The Terrorists Living Among Us," "Jihad: The Trail of Political Islam" and "Jihad: The Rise of Militant Islam in Central Asia" (whew, that's a lot of Jihad).
The most unfortunate consequence of all this is that it makes truly educating oneself on the multifaceted and complex nature of cultures and religions impossible; while at the same time systematically dehumanizing the adherents of an entire religion, effectively reducing their existence to a series of abstract clichés which serve no other purpose than to further the political agenda of our belligerent administration both here and abroad.
The point I'm attempting to make here, I hope in at least a somewhat intelligible manner, is that as educated Americans, it is our duty to not always swallow what we are spoon-fed. I believe that it is possible for everyone to learn about Islam, but not in the way that so many of today's pseudo-experts suggest and not without the proper context.
I'd like to suggest a brief list of some of the many worthwhile books one can begin with: "Struggling to Surrender: Some Impressions of an American Convert to Islam" by Jeffery B. Lang, "Message of the Quran" by Muhammad Asad and, a personal favorite, "The Autobiography of Malcolm X." What I'm suggesting over everything else is that we avoid the trap of thinking and learning in terms of abstract and intangible ideas and begin to approach things humanistically and concretely in order to break up the ideological clouds that so often keep people apart.
Forget about thinking of people in terms of groups, categories and labels, and try to focus on the individual human experiences that shape our beliefs and the way we live our lives. Only then can we reach true understanding. Peace.
--> of course while the author is a Muslim he tried to bring readers to shift from readng books written by non-Muslim author to Muslims author. Yet he has alibi as American Muslim which place him among 'them' . The truth depends on how one's society interpreted what is wrong... 'Allahualam...
by Adnan Mirza, Guest Columnist
March 03, 2003
Over the course of the last few years, I've begun to notice a few rather upsetting trends prevailing in our society. Among them: horrendously mind-numbing television programming, the multiplication of strip malls at exponential rates, the collaboration of some of hip-hop's greatest MC's with their less-than-mediocre "bling-bling" counterparts, and the most recent addition to the list -- the all-together dubious post 9-11 proliferation of "experts" on the Islamic faith who are so willing to explain to the public what this bizarre religion is all about.
Initially, it was my intention to write this piece on what it means for me to be Muslim in America, but the approaches I was considering seemed a bit contrived; my ideas on it ended up being sort of a "Look, I'm just like you, but Muslim" type thing. I could mention how I hate parking enforcement and wish that Fox had never cancelled The Family Guy to run crap like Joe Millionaire. But is this what makes me an American? I used to not think so. I used to think that many of the principles I adhere to as a result of Islam were also ones that I adhered to because I'm an American (you know, commitment to human rights, democracy, peace and freedom).
Quite suddenly, however, this mental link I made in junior high came crashing down not long after the Twin Towers did. At first I noticed them on Fox News, then CNN, ABC, NBC and, yes, even MTV. It descended from the sky like a strange weather pattern, showering Islam "experts" into the studios of every major media outlet.
Drawing upon their vast and infinite knowledge of Islam, each one (e.g. Daniel Pipes, Mitchell Bard, Thomas Friedman, Samuel Huntington, Bernard Lewis, Steven Emerson) seems to feel more than qualified individually to take the faith of over one billion people and simplify it without hesitation into one all-encompassing monolithic entity. Their attempts to argue "What Went Wrong" (Lewis) or "The Clash of Civilizations" (Huntington) are utterly disgusting and repugnant attempts to make unfounded generalizations about the political, social, cultural and linguistic heritages of Muslims spread out all over the world.
The sweeping and antagonistic views presented by these authors and their "expert" colleagues completely fail to take into account the breadth, scope and diversity of the Muslim population as a whole, thus serving as reaffirmation for the existing misinformation regarding Islam.
One needn't look far to spot one of these gems; on my last visit to a local Borders book store, the new arrivals were filled with books like "Militant Islam Reaches America," "American Jihad: The Terrorists Living Among Us," "Jihad: The Trail of Political Islam" and "Jihad: The Rise of Militant Islam in Central Asia" (whew, that's a lot of Jihad).
The most unfortunate consequence of all this is that it makes truly educating oneself on the multifaceted and complex nature of cultures and religions impossible; while at the same time systematically dehumanizing the adherents of an entire religion, effectively reducing their existence to a series of abstract clichés which serve no other purpose than to further the political agenda of our belligerent administration both here and abroad.
The point I'm attempting to make here, I hope in at least a somewhat intelligible manner, is that as educated Americans, it is our duty to not always swallow what we are spoon-fed. I believe that it is possible for everyone to learn about Islam, but not in the way that so many of today's pseudo-experts suggest and not without the proper context.
I'd like to suggest a brief list of some of the many worthwhile books one can begin with: "Struggling to Surrender: Some Impressions of an American Convert to Islam" by Jeffery B. Lang, "Message of the Quran" by Muhammad Asad and, a personal favorite, "The Autobiography of Malcolm X." What I'm suggesting over everything else is that we avoid the trap of thinking and learning in terms of abstract and intangible ideas and begin to approach things humanistically and concretely in order to break up the ideological clouds that so often keep people apart.
Forget about thinking of people in terms of groups, categories and labels, and try to focus on the individual human experiences that shape our beliefs and the way we live our lives. Only then can we reach true understanding. Peace.
--> of course while the author is a Muslim he tried to bring readers to shift from readng books written by non-Muslim author to Muslims author. Yet he has alibi as American Muslim which place him among 'them' . The truth depends on how one's society interpreted what is wrong... 'Allahualam...
Sunday, March 09, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
Is Malaysia Safe?
I read through Malaysian online news and found out that within a day there were around 10 'disaster' took place. Accident, fighting, killing, raping and etc. What went wrong? More tragic, it all involve lives, in one case, 1 was dead and 4 others were severely injured in a fight because of a woman. A child was dragged for 20 meters by the 2nd car which hit him while he was crossing the road. A thieft asked the woman he robbed to do oral sex to him. huh!?
romanticism:
we learn to much about our ancestor's success until we forgot that they also had hard time. How did they survived? Did we learn from them? NO. We overlooked at all those important values. Why won't we? who's fault is it? ourselves? them? environment? THINK
yesterday's Usrah Gabungan ran smoothly though only few appeared at first, but later lots of people came. Unfortunately people who came late missed the previous 3 games. Come on la Malaysians, cannot be punctual eh? Discover Malaysia can, why Usrah gabungan can't? what la you!!!!!
I ruined my p2 program assignment. Dunno how to plot the positions :-( (Thanks Sajeed and Malik for the help)
It is true, to become a success tribe all elements must be completed; Iman, Knowledge, Unity, Good Character and all. If Muslims wouldn't want to help each other, who will? I know there are lots of hadith of helping among Muslims... and to love each other just like loving urself. That is wonderful and if fully practice, could bring happiness to all people in the world insyaAllah
oh oh Friday nite, somebody called me and asked advice on marriage. Big thing huh!? I don't quiet understand why the guys can't satisfy with a woman? Hopefully the person who called me have solve the problem 'Allahualam...
Called home just now, but nobody was home except my cute sister Zulaikha who just came back from Quran recitation class. "Good Luck for exam sayang..." She is 13, chubby and cute :-)
Is Malaysia Safe?
I read through Malaysian online news and found out that within a day there were around 10 'disaster' took place. Accident, fighting, killing, raping and etc. What went wrong? More tragic, it all involve lives, in one case, 1 was dead and 4 others were severely injured in a fight because of a woman. A child was dragged for 20 meters by the 2nd car which hit him while he was crossing the road. A thieft asked the woman he robbed to do oral sex to him. huh!?
romanticism:
we learn to much about our ancestor's success until we forgot that they also had hard time. How did they survived? Did we learn from them? NO. We overlooked at all those important values. Why won't we? who's fault is it? ourselves? them? environment? THINK
yesterday's Usrah Gabungan ran smoothly though only few appeared at first, but later lots of people came. Unfortunately people who came late missed the previous 3 games. Come on la Malaysians, cannot be punctual eh? Discover Malaysia can, why Usrah gabungan can't? what la you!!!!!
I ruined my p2 program assignment. Dunno how to plot the positions :-( (Thanks Sajeed and Malik for the help)
It is true, to become a success tribe all elements must be completed; Iman, Knowledge, Unity, Good Character and all. If Muslims wouldn't want to help each other, who will? I know there are lots of hadith of helping among Muslims... and to love each other just like loving urself. That is wonderful and if fully practice, could bring happiness to all people in the world insyaAllah
oh oh Friday nite, somebody called me and asked advice on marriage. Big thing huh!? I don't quiet understand why the guys can't satisfy with a woman? Hopefully the person who called me have solve the problem 'Allahualam...
Called home just now, but nobody was home except my cute sister Zulaikha who just came back from Quran recitation class. "Good Luck for exam sayang..." She is 13, chubby and cute :-)
Saturday, March 08, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
just finished preparing stuff for usrah gathering tomorrow, alhamdulillah... also the bazaar thingy was done too. I spend all night finishing it, alhamdulillah...
what would you do when you missed somebody? hehe...
Malaysian's Prime Minister is now on his vacation giving his Deputy Prime Minister opportunities to explore his future role as the new PM. Yeah, it's time for Dr. Mahathir to retired and give his position to someone else although he had and still helping in development in Malaysia. It is hard to become a leader ... May Allah bless us all ameen...
(not supporting any political party)
the Malaysian couple who fought last week already made peace! people people...
"Wahai isteri-isteri Nabi, kamu semua bukanlah seperti mana-mana perempuan yang lain kalau kamu tetap bertakwa. Oleh itu janganlah kamu berkata-kata dengan lembut manja (semasa bercakap dengan lelaki asing) kerana yang demikian boleh menimbulkan keinginan orang yang ada penyakit dalam hatinya (menaruh tujuan buruk kepada kamu) dan sebaliknya berkatalah dengan kata-kata yang baik (sesuai dan sopan)." Al Ahzaab:32
high level of testosteron in men's body make them easily sexually aroused even with hearing to women's voices
it is testosteron not estrgen or pregesteron that responds to women sexual behavior though it is in small amount (the woman will show masculine character if testosterone level is high in he body -- tomboy)
just finished preparing stuff for usrah gathering tomorrow, alhamdulillah... also the bazaar thingy was done too. I spend all night finishing it, alhamdulillah...
what would you do when you missed somebody? hehe...
Malaysian's Prime Minister is now on his vacation giving his Deputy Prime Minister opportunities to explore his future role as the new PM. Yeah, it's time for Dr. Mahathir to retired and give his position to someone else although he had and still helping in development in Malaysia. It is hard to become a leader ... May Allah bless us all ameen...
(not supporting any political party)
the Malaysian couple who fought last week already made peace! people people...
"Wahai isteri-isteri Nabi, kamu semua bukanlah seperti mana-mana perempuan yang lain kalau kamu tetap bertakwa. Oleh itu janganlah kamu berkata-kata dengan lembut manja (semasa bercakap dengan lelaki asing) kerana yang demikian boleh menimbulkan keinginan orang yang ada penyakit dalam hatinya (menaruh tujuan buruk kepada kamu) dan sebaliknya berkatalah dengan kata-kata yang baik (sesuai dan sopan)." Al Ahzaab:32
high level of testosteron in men's body make them easily sexually aroused even with hearing to women's voices
it is testosteron not estrgen or pregesteron that responds to women sexual behavior though it is in small amount (the woman will show masculine character if testosterone level is high in he body -- tomboy)
Friday, March 07, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
went to dr Muneer Fareed lecture last nite -- "Is There an American Muslim Culture?" NO
he went through histories of turk and Hijaz people in Mecca and giving some examples of how Islam is and will always be part of a culture -- yes it is the dominant of onself but will never be in a larger community.
He has different ideology -- Islam is not teh way of life rather what one express out of oneself -- one can change langauge but not their religion or vice versa ... 'Allahualam...
I was on my way back from work, and then met Sajeed and he was the one who told me about the lecture -- Thank you dude! hehe... I was on campus since 9 am and haven't had anything since then. But the lecture was nice and I was been filled.
bro. Obay wrote, dear Sr. the best of Bariah, in his email -- never thought of that
getting ready to go to school
went to dr Muneer Fareed lecture last nite -- "Is There an American Muslim Culture?" NO
he went through histories of turk and Hijaz people in Mecca and giving some examples of how Islam is and will always be part of a culture -- yes it is the dominant of onself but will never be in a larger community.
He has different ideology -- Islam is not teh way of life rather what one express out of oneself -- one can change langauge but not their religion or vice versa ... 'Allahualam...
I was on my way back from work, and then met Sajeed and he was the one who told me about the lecture -- Thank you dude! hehe... I was on campus since 9 am and haven't had anything since then. But the lecture was nice and I was been filled.
bro. Obay wrote, dear Sr. the best of Bariah, in his email -- never thought of that
getting ready to go to school
Thursday, March 06, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
working in soc sci ref lib with Mega. Life went pretty well for me thus few days with the exception of the exams last 2 days. Anyway, still in progress in preparing questions and puzzles for Usrah Gabungan this Saturday at MU. Hopefully this event will run smoothly...
so, few questions that need answers:
(1) what is MalcomX name when he turned to Islam?
(2) what are the pillars of Islam?
(3) Who is the current president of MSA at UW-Madison?
quiet easy huh!? that's the point of the usrah gathering this time, with theme "tak kenal maka tak cinta" I would like to help my friends and myself recall again some of the most important things and seerah of the sahabah. Learning from Seerah will 'upgrade' our IMAN. How? by taking the good examples and learning how to become a close to 'perfect' Muslim.
Also most of the questions required us to refer to the Tafseer in which many students have forgotton to do so these days... (not to mention myself)... whatever you want to do, or if you have any doubts on anything, just return back to the Al Quran and the Sunnah (deeds of the prophet)
I don't have any intention to organize the Usrah Gabungan before as I am unofficially retired from my position. Then I realized, why can't I just contribute to my friends without having the position title after me. I could do this as myself, as a friend, right? oh well, to bro. Hakim, I would like to thank you for reminding me and at the same time to ask you to reconsidered your words before saying it to other people. Not that it's hurt, but sometime the words just flew out of your mouth and sometime it reached to the wrong person.. 'Allahualam...
"Only those are Believers, who believe in Allah and His Messenger: when they are with him on a matter requiring collective action, they do not depart until they have asked for his leave: those who ask for thy leave are those who believe in Allah and His Messenger; so when they ask for thy leave, for some business of theirs, give leave to those of them whom thou wilt, and ask Allah for their forgiveness: for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful" An - Nur : 62
working in soc sci ref lib with Mega. Life went pretty well for me thus few days with the exception of the exams last 2 days. Anyway, still in progress in preparing questions and puzzles for Usrah Gabungan this Saturday at MU. Hopefully this event will run smoothly...
so, few questions that need answers:
(1) what is MalcomX name when he turned to Islam?
(2) what are the pillars of Islam?
(3) Who is the current president of MSA at UW-Madison?
quiet easy huh!? that's the point of the usrah gathering this time, with theme "tak kenal maka tak cinta" I would like to help my friends and myself recall again some of the most important things and seerah of the sahabah. Learning from Seerah will 'upgrade' our IMAN. How? by taking the good examples and learning how to become a close to 'perfect' Muslim.
Also most of the questions required us to refer to the Tafseer in which many students have forgotton to do so these days... (not to mention myself)... whatever you want to do, or if you have any doubts on anything, just return back to the Al Quran and the Sunnah (deeds of the prophet)
I don't have any intention to organize the Usrah Gabungan before as I am unofficially retired from my position. Then I realized, why can't I just contribute to my friends without having the position title after me. I could do this as myself, as a friend, right? oh well, to bro. Hakim, I would like to thank you for reminding me and at the same time to ask you to reconsidered your words before saying it to other people. Not that it's hurt, but sometime the words just flew out of your mouth and sometime it reached to the wrong person.. 'Allahualam...
"Only those are Believers, who believe in Allah and His Messenger: when they are with him on a matter requiring collective action, they do not depart until they have asked for his leave: those who ask for thy leave are those who believe in Allah and His Messenger; so when they ask for thy leave, for some business of theirs, give leave to those of them whom thou wilt, and ask Allah for their forgiveness: for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful" An - Nur : 62
Wednesday, March 05, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
The Muslim Students Association (MSA) is helding the Islam Awareness Week which started last Monday all through this Friday (around campus) . There are series of lectures around campus, booths and open house at the Islamic Center being organized to make the program succeed. Also, in the Daily Cardinal there are articles which written by UW Muslim students. Attending the open house is a must! you wouldn't want to miss such opportunity to learn about ISLAM closer.
Muhammed spoke to all aspects of life
By Jennifer Leigh Curti
Islam has received much attention these days. After languishing on the backburner as a religion of foreigners from sandy deserts far away, today one can hardly turn on the TV without a special documentary or a news segment on some aspect of Islam. Six million Americans claim Islam as their faith, joining their 1.2 billion brothers and sisters worldwide.
At the center of this faith is the belief in one God. Muslims believe that God has sent messengers to Earth throughout time, bearing the message of Islamic monotheism. The final Prophet of Islam was Muhammed. Although the Prophet lived and died in 7th century Arabia, his influence did not expire with him. Even today, his words and deeds inspire Muslims globally to strive for a better world.
The Prophet Muhammed was not simply a spiritual leader of a community. His influence was felt in every aspect of the Muslim community. If people had a question about government, they would refer it to the Prophet. If people were wondering the best way to treat their spouse, they would ask the Prophet Muhammed. From the Prophet's central role in the early Muslim community, modern day Muslims can find guidance for spiritual, intellectual and socio-political issues in their lives even today. Because of his leadership and wisdom, Muslims today have a vast resource on how to deal with any situation that may arise.
The following examples from the words and deeds of the Prophet Muhammed give a greater sense of who this man is. Advice on politics, religion and family are interspersed with gems of kindness and compassion that speak to the true character of the Prophet.
"No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself."
And: "Worship the Merciful [Allah], feed the hungry and spread peace. You shall then enter Paradise in peace."
The themes of compassion, equality and peace are strong in the actions of the Prophet. It is no wonder that one of the many names of Muhammed is Nabi ar-Rahma, or the Prophet of Mercy.
The words of the Prophet and his message from God have quashed the greed of a pop-star (Cat Stevens), soothed the arrogance of a sports legend (Muhammed Ali) and inspired a great civil rights activist (Malcolm X). Even 1,400 years later, the Prophet Muhammed's message remains relevant, and if anything, more crucial towards bringing a sense of peace and equality to the world.
"Do not consider any act of kindness insignificant, even meeting your brother with a cheerful face."
If a smile is considered an act of charity, shouldn't we all be a little more charitable towards our fellow human beings?
above is an example of articles written in the newspaper. Enjoy reading!
The Muslim Students Association (MSA) is helding the Islam Awareness Week which started last Monday all through this Friday (around campus) . There are series of lectures around campus, booths and open house at the Islamic Center being organized to make the program succeed. Also, in the Daily Cardinal there are articles which written by UW Muslim students. Attending the open house is a must! you wouldn't want to miss such opportunity to learn about ISLAM closer.
Muhammed spoke to all aspects of life
By Jennifer Leigh Curti
Islam has received much attention these days. After languishing on the backburner as a religion of foreigners from sandy deserts far away, today one can hardly turn on the TV without a special documentary or a news segment on some aspect of Islam. Six million Americans claim Islam as their faith, joining their 1.2 billion brothers and sisters worldwide.
At the center of this faith is the belief in one God. Muslims believe that God has sent messengers to Earth throughout time, bearing the message of Islamic monotheism. The final Prophet of Islam was Muhammed. Although the Prophet lived and died in 7th century Arabia, his influence did not expire with him. Even today, his words and deeds inspire Muslims globally to strive for a better world.
The Prophet Muhammed was not simply a spiritual leader of a community. His influence was felt in every aspect of the Muslim community. If people had a question about government, they would refer it to the Prophet. If people were wondering the best way to treat their spouse, they would ask the Prophet Muhammed. From the Prophet's central role in the early Muslim community, modern day Muslims can find guidance for spiritual, intellectual and socio-political issues in their lives even today. Because of his leadership and wisdom, Muslims today have a vast resource on how to deal with any situation that may arise.
The following examples from the words and deeds of the Prophet Muhammed give a greater sense of who this man is. Advice on politics, religion and family are interspersed with gems of kindness and compassion that speak to the true character of the Prophet.
"No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself."
And: "Worship the Merciful [Allah], feed the hungry and spread peace. You shall then enter Paradise in peace."
The themes of compassion, equality and peace are strong in the actions of the Prophet. It is no wonder that one of the many names of Muhammed is Nabi ar-Rahma, or the Prophet of Mercy.
The words of the Prophet and his message from God have quashed the greed of a pop-star (Cat Stevens), soothed the arrogance of a sports legend (Muhammed Ali) and inspired a great civil rights activist (Malcolm X). Even 1,400 years later, the Prophet Muhammed's message remains relevant, and if anything, more crucial towards bringing a sense of peace and equality to the world.
"Do not consider any act of kindness insignificant, even meeting your brother with a cheerful face."
If a smile is considered an act of charity, shouldn't we all be a little more charitable towards our fellow human beings?
above is an example of articles written in the newspaper. Enjoy reading!
Tuesday, March 04, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
esok ade exam cs354 "moga dipermudahkan" ameen
so so so beautiful, masyaAllah... Mursyid and Murshida their names -- they live above me in Jerantut. My mom takes care of them during the day as their mother sewing. I took care of them too! so nice... mursyid likes to wath tv, mursyida always want someone to hold her... missed both of them!
"kaklong cium due-due ni karang!" hehehe...
esok ade exam cs354 "moga dipermudahkan" ameen
so so so beautiful, masyaAllah... Mursyid and Murshida their names -- they live above me in Jerantut. My mom takes care of them during the day as their mother sewing. I took care of them too! so nice... mursyid likes to wath tv, mursyida always want someone to hold her... missed both of them!
"kaklong cium due-due ni karang!" hehehe...
assalamualeikum wbt
wanna starts today with this beautiful song by The Zikr
ISTERI SHOLEHAH
Isteri cerdik yang solehah
Penyejuk mata penawar hati penenteram fikiran
Di rumah ia isteri di jalanan kawan
Di waktu kita buntu
Dia penunjuk jalan
Pandangan kita diperteguhkan
Menjadikan kita tetap pendirian
Ilmu yang diberi dapat disimpan
Kita lupa dia mengingatkan
Nasihat kita dijadikan pakaian
Silap kita dia betulkan
Penghibur diwaktu kesunyian
Terasa ramai bila bersamanya
Dia umpama tongkat sibuta
Bila tiada satu kehilangan
Dia ibarat simpanan ilmu
Semoga kekal untuk diwariskan
wanna starts today with this beautiful song by The Zikr
ISTERI SHOLEHAH
Isteri cerdik yang solehah
Penyejuk mata penawar hati penenteram fikiran
Di rumah ia isteri di jalanan kawan
Di waktu kita buntu
Dia penunjuk jalan
Pandangan kita diperteguhkan
Menjadikan kita tetap pendirian
Ilmu yang diberi dapat disimpan
Kita lupa dia mengingatkan
Nasihat kita dijadikan pakaian
Silap kita dia betulkan
Penghibur diwaktu kesunyian
Terasa ramai bila bersamanya
Dia umpama tongkat sibuta
Bila tiada satu kehilangan
Dia ibarat simpanan ilmu
Semoga kekal untuk diwariskan
Sunday, March 02, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
dah nak masuk tahun baru 1424 Hijrah -- alhamdulillah, Syukur to Allah atas kurniaanNya membenarkan untuk ana meneruskan tanggungjawab sebagai hambaNya dimuka bumi ini.. ameen
received an email from one of the msa member, forwarding his "ex-lover' breaking up email -- since when msa email list become wayang melayu? come on la lan, telur sebijik takkan nak riuh sekampung! how old are you again? 24 or 14?
*updated some pics from latest event*
dah nak masuk tahun baru 1424 Hijrah -- alhamdulillah, Syukur to Allah atas kurniaanNya membenarkan untuk ana meneruskan tanggungjawab sebagai hambaNya dimuka bumi ini.. ameen
received an email from one of the msa member, forwarding his "ex-lover' breaking up email -- since when msa email list become wayang melayu? come on la lan, telur sebijik takkan nak riuh sekampung! how old are you again? 24 or 14?
*updated some pics from latest event*
Saturday, March 01, 2003
assalamualeikum wbt
Discover Malaysia just finished! it went well at first, by the time we finished with all the performance and etc., the fire alarm turned on. Suprisingly these Malaysians are still happily on the stage shouting and taking pictures -- after a while then somebody took the alarm seriously... not that I hate my own people, but that isn't the kind of attitude that we wanted to show to them on DM. Overall is great, everybody did a very good job! well done to everybody! as for post mortem purposes, I would say that the Chinese presentation was the best. They explained everything in details, step by step whereas the Malay culture presentation only consist of wedding ceremony and dance performance. Again, it was a very good job! At the end, they had "Yam Sei" ceremony which I don't know what it was. They give me a glass of water, and ask me to hold it up while they shouted "Yammm" and "Seiiiiii" ... I didn't! well, who was going to do things without knowing why you should do it? kan?
I helped took care of the exhibiton, answering questions from guests. Sajeed came with friend. So shy that he didn't even talk to me until after all the performance were done. But then, he asked questions that he knows the answer was... naughty boy huh! :-P oh oh my 'jemput-jemput' were finished, alhamdulillah... everybody was so helpful... kesian kat Gavin and Cha In, they seemed really really busy... Gavin looks thin... Cha In looks like he wanna cry... and all... sorry for you dear... hope both of you will recover soon.. take care bebeh!
now I need to get back to my life; my studies, my struggle and etc. "May Allah give me guidance through my journey in this real world" ameen....
Who does not have problems?
Problems are a part of life. If it were not for distance and separation, people would never know the joy of meeting and reunion. If it were not for poverty, people would not know wealth. And if it were not for sorrow, people would not know joy.
In this manner, Allah has permitted the world to be a place of passage, where pleasure is accompanied by pain and laughter by tears, a world where the degree and severity of suffering is commensurate to the degree of happiness a person feels when that suffering goes away.
Every home has its problems, as does every office, corporation, and country. Every soul is afflicted with its own inner problems. When a person knows that his own self does not comply with what he wants from it and does not fulfill his expectations, and that it often shames him and disappoints him unbearably, then what can he possibly expect from others?
What can he hope to expect from the difficulties that arise from social interactions, whether they occur within a family setting, or among neighbors, or between colleagues and business partners, or with those who he meets on the road?
In spite of all this, the goodness, companionship, and human welfare that social interactions bring about can never be attained by a person who lives in isolation. The evils brought about by seclusion are far greater than the discomfort that comes from dealing with others.
How many people have tried to solve their problems by cutting off their dealings with others and going into seclusion? They seek to treat their ailments with something that is a sickness itself. They wind up longing to return to the very circumstances that they had so much detested before.
A woman feels that she can not stand to live with her husband's behavior any more and sees divorce as the only solution. Then when she gets what she wants, she feels like she is going to die of loneliness and starts to think of a way to undo what she had done.
An employee feels he can not bear his job any longer so he quits his job. After a while, though, he starts looking for people to intercede on his behalf as he repeatedly tries to get his job back.
This is why it is not sensible to hastily resort to severing ties, thinking that this is going to get to the root of the problem and make it just go away. This course of action can possibly cause much more suffering than before.
Specialists in problem management have set down the following practical steps for dealing with one's problems. These steps can be summarized as follows:
1. Perceiving and recognizing the problem.
2. Defining the problem correctly.
3. Research, examination, and fact finding, with a focus on pinpointing causes.
4. Setting down alternatives and options, then evaluating them and weighing their pros and cons.
5. Determining the option that will provide the best solution to the problem.
These steps can only be put into practice by a person who can approach his problems with a calm, level head. Reactions that are spontaneous and overemotional only serve to cloud a person's judgment, making it seem that the only solution is to completely divorce oneself from the source of the problem and with everything that in any way relates to it.
The problem could actually come from the deep within a person's character or personal history and cannot be simply shrugged off. It could also come from unavoidable circumstances outside of that person's control.
Often we besiege ourselves with problems and difficulties. This is not to say that those problems are not real. They definitely are. But we often have many good ways of getting around them. We do not have to dwell on them. We need to seek the help of Allah and cling hard to the firm handhold that He provides, repeating the words: "You alone we worship and You alone we beseech for help."
One of the supplications that the Prophets of old used to make goes as follows: "O Allah! Yours is the praise. You are the one whose help we seek. You are the one on whom we rely. Yours is the aid that we seek. There is no might and no strength except with Allah, the High and Mighty."
We can look at our problems as they really are and strive to get rid of them or at least minimize them, without letting them suffocate us or hold us back. Our problems must not make us stop working and living productive lives. We can also defer some problems that we cannot solve at the present time and wait for Allah, in whose hands rest all affairs, to relieve us of them
It is related from Ibn Mas`ûd that Allah's Messenger said: "The best form of worship is to wait for relief." [Sunan al-Tirmidhî (3571), al-Bazzâr (Majma` al-Zawâ'id 10/147), and al-Bayhaqî in Shu`ab al-Imân (7/204)] This narration, though, is weak.
At the same time, there can be no doubt that expecting relief from Allah is a form of worship, since it is part of being patient. This brings to our attention an important yet often overlooked fact - that many problems can be solved, but not by jumping ahead of things. They must be approached one step at a time. Haste can lead to making our problems more deeply entrenched than they were before. Sometimes the best solution is to postpone action and be patient until the right opportunity comes along for a solution to be sought.
Patience, then, is necessary in all cases. Therefore, we have been encouraged - actually commanded - to be patient. The word patience, in all of its morphological forms, comes in the Qur'ân about 103 times. Without patience to beautify our deeds, our efforts come to nothing. This is what `Umar meant when he said: "We found the best of our lives in patience." [Al-Bukhârî (6104)]
We can solve some problems with Allah's help, and we can minimize others. As for those problems for which we cannot find a solution, we can do our best to accommodate them. If a person were to take a small square, no bigger than the palm of his hand, and place it right in front of his eye, that small square would completely block his vision. The same thing can be said of problems when we make them larger than they actually are and give over to them a good share of our lives, thoughts, and feelings so they become a serious impediment to our moving forward and living productively. The classical Arabian poet Mutanabbih writes:
The eye of a small person makes small things look large
And the eye of a great person makes great calamities look small.
And
When a man grows accustomed to dwelling in the fear of death
Its arrival becomes the easiest possible event.
Without the least doubt, a person is going to face difficulties from his family, sometimes because they are worried about him, and sometimes because they are angry with him for violating their norms and customs, and sometimes because they love him, as love can bring about its own stresses.
He is going to face difficulties from society, from his school or university, from his job, and from the people he chooses to interact with.
Moreover, he is going to have to deal with difficulties emanating from within himself. Within him will be tendencies pulling him to do good and others pulling him to do evil. It will be as if his own inner condition is saying to him: "Why is it that I call you to salvation, yet you call me to the Fire?"
At the same time, this person, by way of supplication, devotion in prayer, and humility, will find Allah's help and support, and Allah will bless him the strength of will that he needs. He will also find help and support from his believing brethren who follow the same path.
Even when a problem springs from the inner depths of our being, we still must not let it bring us down. We must start afresh, take an assessment of our injuries, and bring our scattered wishes together. Then we must keep our eyes on the future instead of always looking back.
Is not Allah the one who is Oft Forgiving and accepts our repentance? Are not we human beings all prone to error? Our hearts can be cleansed with the knowledge that Allah is forgiving and by keeping hope before us. We must leave our vanities and base passions aside so they will not kill our souls. A believer takes refuge in his Lord and keeps the company of people who will help him overcome the obstacles along the way and help him to strengthen his resolve and his commitment. If he pulls himself up every time he stumbles, he will surely arrive.
Discover Malaysia just finished! it went well at first, by the time we finished with all the performance and etc., the fire alarm turned on. Suprisingly these Malaysians are still happily on the stage shouting and taking pictures -- after a while then somebody took the alarm seriously... not that I hate my own people, but that isn't the kind of attitude that we wanted to show to them on DM. Overall is great, everybody did a very good job! well done to everybody! as for post mortem purposes, I would say that the Chinese presentation was the best. They explained everything in details, step by step whereas the Malay culture presentation only consist of wedding ceremony and dance performance. Again, it was a very good job! At the end, they had "Yam Sei" ceremony which I don't know what it was. They give me a glass of water, and ask me to hold it up while they shouted "Yammm" and "Seiiiiii" ... I didn't! well, who was going to do things without knowing why you should do it? kan?
I helped took care of the exhibiton, answering questions from guests. Sajeed came with friend. So shy that he didn't even talk to me until after all the performance were done. But then, he asked questions that he knows the answer was... naughty boy huh! :-P oh oh my 'jemput-jemput' were finished, alhamdulillah... everybody was so helpful... kesian kat Gavin and Cha In, they seemed really really busy... Gavin looks thin... Cha In looks like he wanna cry... and all... sorry for you dear... hope both of you will recover soon.. take care bebeh!
now I need to get back to my life; my studies, my struggle and etc. "May Allah give me guidance through my journey in this real world" ameen....
Who does not have problems?
Problems are a part of life. If it were not for distance and separation, people would never know the joy of meeting and reunion. If it were not for poverty, people would not know wealth. And if it were not for sorrow, people would not know joy.
In this manner, Allah has permitted the world to be a place of passage, where pleasure is accompanied by pain and laughter by tears, a world where the degree and severity of suffering is commensurate to the degree of happiness a person feels when that suffering goes away.
Every home has its problems, as does every office, corporation, and country. Every soul is afflicted with its own inner problems. When a person knows that his own self does not comply with what he wants from it and does not fulfill his expectations, and that it often shames him and disappoints him unbearably, then what can he possibly expect from others?
What can he hope to expect from the difficulties that arise from social interactions, whether they occur within a family setting, or among neighbors, or between colleagues and business partners, or with those who he meets on the road?
In spite of all this, the goodness, companionship, and human welfare that social interactions bring about can never be attained by a person who lives in isolation. The evils brought about by seclusion are far greater than the discomfort that comes from dealing with others.
How many people have tried to solve their problems by cutting off their dealings with others and going into seclusion? They seek to treat their ailments with something that is a sickness itself. They wind up longing to return to the very circumstances that they had so much detested before.
A woman feels that she can not stand to live with her husband's behavior any more and sees divorce as the only solution. Then when she gets what she wants, she feels like she is going to die of loneliness and starts to think of a way to undo what she had done.
An employee feels he can not bear his job any longer so he quits his job. After a while, though, he starts looking for people to intercede on his behalf as he repeatedly tries to get his job back.
This is why it is not sensible to hastily resort to severing ties, thinking that this is going to get to the root of the problem and make it just go away. This course of action can possibly cause much more suffering than before.
Specialists in problem management have set down the following practical steps for dealing with one's problems. These steps can be summarized as follows:
1. Perceiving and recognizing the problem.
2. Defining the problem correctly.
3. Research, examination, and fact finding, with a focus on pinpointing causes.
4. Setting down alternatives and options, then evaluating them and weighing their pros and cons.
5. Determining the option that will provide the best solution to the problem.
These steps can only be put into practice by a person who can approach his problems with a calm, level head. Reactions that are spontaneous and overemotional only serve to cloud a person's judgment, making it seem that the only solution is to completely divorce oneself from the source of the problem and with everything that in any way relates to it.
The problem could actually come from the deep within a person's character or personal history and cannot be simply shrugged off. It could also come from unavoidable circumstances outside of that person's control.
Often we besiege ourselves with problems and difficulties. This is not to say that those problems are not real. They definitely are. But we often have many good ways of getting around them. We do not have to dwell on them. We need to seek the help of Allah and cling hard to the firm handhold that He provides, repeating the words: "You alone we worship and You alone we beseech for help."
One of the supplications that the Prophets of old used to make goes as follows: "O Allah! Yours is the praise. You are the one whose help we seek. You are the one on whom we rely. Yours is the aid that we seek. There is no might and no strength except with Allah, the High and Mighty."
We can look at our problems as they really are and strive to get rid of them or at least minimize them, without letting them suffocate us or hold us back. Our problems must not make us stop working and living productive lives. We can also defer some problems that we cannot solve at the present time and wait for Allah, in whose hands rest all affairs, to relieve us of them
It is related from Ibn Mas`ûd that Allah's Messenger said: "The best form of worship is to wait for relief." [Sunan al-Tirmidhî (3571), al-Bazzâr (Majma` al-Zawâ'id 10/147), and al-Bayhaqî in Shu`ab al-Imân (7/204)] This narration, though, is weak.
At the same time, there can be no doubt that expecting relief from Allah is a form of worship, since it is part of being patient. This brings to our attention an important yet often overlooked fact - that many problems can be solved, but not by jumping ahead of things. They must be approached one step at a time. Haste can lead to making our problems more deeply entrenched than they were before. Sometimes the best solution is to postpone action and be patient until the right opportunity comes along for a solution to be sought.
Patience, then, is necessary in all cases. Therefore, we have been encouraged - actually commanded - to be patient. The word patience, in all of its morphological forms, comes in the Qur'ân about 103 times. Without patience to beautify our deeds, our efforts come to nothing. This is what `Umar meant when he said: "We found the best of our lives in patience." [Al-Bukhârî (6104)]
We can solve some problems with Allah's help, and we can minimize others. As for those problems for which we cannot find a solution, we can do our best to accommodate them. If a person were to take a small square, no bigger than the palm of his hand, and place it right in front of his eye, that small square would completely block his vision. The same thing can be said of problems when we make them larger than they actually are and give over to them a good share of our lives, thoughts, and feelings so they become a serious impediment to our moving forward and living productively. The classical Arabian poet Mutanabbih writes:
The eye of a small person makes small things look large
And the eye of a great person makes great calamities look small.
And
When a man grows accustomed to dwelling in the fear of death
Its arrival becomes the easiest possible event.
Without the least doubt, a person is going to face difficulties from his family, sometimes because they are worried about him, and sometimes because they are angry with him for violating their norms and customs, and sometimes because they love him, as love can bring about its own stresses.
He is going to face difficulties from society, from his school or university, from his job, and from the people he chooses to interact with.
Moreover, he is going to have to deal with difficulties emanating from within himself. Within him will be tendencies pulling him to do good and others pulling him to do evil. It will be as if his own inner condition is saying to him: "Why is it that I call you to salvation, yet you call me to the Fire?"
At the same time, this person, by way of supplication, devotion in prayer, and humility, will find Allah's help and support, and Allah will bless him the strength of will that he needs. He will also find help and support from his believing brethren who follow the same path.
Even when a problem springs from the inner depths of our being, we still must not let it bring us down. We must start afresh, take an assessment of our injuries, and bring our scattered wishes together. Then we must keep our eyes on the future instead of always looking back.
Is not Allah the one who is Oft Forgiving and accepts our repentance? Are not we human beings all prone to error? Our hearts can be cleansed with the knowledge that Allah is forgiving and by keeping hope before us. We must leave our vanities and base passions aside so they will not kill our souls. A believer takes refuge in his Lord and keeps the company of people who will help him overcome the obstacles along the way and help him to strengthen his resolve and his commitment. If he pulls himself up every time he stumbles, he will surely arrive.
