assalamualeikum wbt
got up so late today, received phone callS from fahrol. Why people don't respect others privacy? gavin, pakcik and others are on their way to Orlando today! Have a safe journey! Gonna miss u guys, a lot! but.. why people never wanted me to join their trip? am I that bad? have some conversation with mon just now, about manners.
nothing else to say, bye
Thursday, December 26, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
hmm... lots and lots of thing to write but felt tired and lazy. Just got back from Majlis Hari Raya - anjuran Malaysian families. Fun, full and happy are the best word to describe tonite. I cried a little bit, when the twin cried because they wanted the lego instead of the toy car I bought them. What made me cries? Sebab ada org tanye, kenapa tak beli hadiah yg sama utk semua? and I was like, what the heck? suke ati analah nak beli hadiah apa pun utk depa semua. I am not perfect, never be... but at least I'm doing sth good for myself and for those kids.
the fun started since morning; I helped Kak Pisah and Kak Tini cook the Lodeh and also lunch which are nasi puteh, sayur goreng, telur goreng and satay goreng! huhuhu best kan? Then, helped them prepared the chicken and cleaned the kitchen. Alhamdulillah... we went back home at about 4 pm. I got some sleep (1/2 hour), iroend my baju kurung and then went back there with juices and desserts...
after all the eating and chit chatting part, I helped them do the clean up. Put everything inside the trash bin, put the already washed dishes in order, packed up the leftover and etc. My leg went crammed! sakit tau... pakcik pun buat hal, geram betul! yep, everybody have their own life!
I tried very hard to think positive. But I don't think the manners that the girls showed tonite can be tolerable by anybody... 'Allahualam... am I being conservative? am I that stupid? am I that stupid to differentiate between adab and having fun? ya Allah, tunjukilah hambaMu ini jalan yang benar, jalan yang Kau redhai ya Allah... amin
hmm... lots and lots of thing to write but felt tired and lazy. Just got back from Majlis Hari Raya - anjuran Malaysian families. Fun, full and happy are the best word to describe tonite. I cried a little bit, when the twin cried because they wanted the lego instead of the toy car I bought them. What made me cries? Sebab ada org tanye, kenapa tak beli hadiah yg sama utk semua? and I was like, what the heck? suke ati analah nak beli hadiah apa pun utk depa semua. I am not perfect, never be... but at least I'm doing sth good for myself and for those kids.
the fun started since morning; I helped Kak Pisah and Kak Tini cook the Lodeh and also lunch which are nasi puteh, sayur goreng, telur goreng and satay goreng! huhuhu best kan? Then, helped them prepared the chicken and cleaned the kitchen. Alhamdulillah... we went back home at about 4 pm. I got some sleep (1/2 hour), iroend my baju kurung and then went back there with juices and desserts...
after all the eating and chit chatting part, I helped them do the clean up. Put everything inside the trash bin, put the already washed dishes in order, packed up the leftover and etc. My leg went crammed! sakit tau... pakcik pun buat hal, geram betul! yep, everybody have their own life!
I tried very hard to think positive. But I don't think the manners that the girls showed tonite can be tolerable by anybody... 'Allahualam... am I being conservative? am I that stupid? am I that stupid to differentiate between adab and having fun? ya Allah, tunjukilah hambaMu ini jalan yang benar, jalan yang Kau redhai ya Allah... amin
Friday, December 20, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
tamat sudah cerita untuk semester ini... alhamdulillah.... sekarang nak tumpu untuk hal muktamar and myself. Missing classes! heh... how's Lorie doing didn't contact her since our last class that day... hope she didn't have any difficulties with the take home exam. How's Reem? Did she finished her 30 pages paper? Missed everybody now... Hope everybody is doing fine insyaAllah...
So, what did I do today? what did I do this semester? Did I pleased Allah? Did you? Did everybody?
"Our Lord! forgive us our sins and anything we may have done that transgressed our duty: establish our feet firmly, and help us against those that resist Faith." (3:147)
"He is Allah; there is no Allah but He...." (59:22)
Allah is unique in terms of true Being. No other being can be said to exist `of itself'. In fact, "Everything perishes except His Presence (Face)" (28:88). It is probable that the name Allâh occurs to indicate the Absolute in the same way that proper nouns denote particular things. Everything that can be said, however, in respect of the origin of the word is from the human point of view, that is, relative and arbitrary.
As Allah breathed His Spirit on the human form it can aspire to actualize Allah's Qualities but the possibility of this occurring is limited and relative to our own natural disposition--which Allah gave us--and the extent of our directing our motivations and perceptions towards this goal. However, gaining knowledge of Allah's Most Beautiful Names and assuming them as noble or praiseworthy character traits whatever possible makes us in no way comparable to Allah's likeness. The Qur'an clearly states, "Naught is as His likeness" (16:74) nor should one consider that sharing in every quality means a likeness. Likeness is defined as sharing in a specific thing and in essence. A horse and a human being may both be swift but their likeness ends here.
The meaning of the name Allâh is so specific that it is inconceivable that there could be any sharing of the Name whether it be metaphorically or literally. In view of this, the rest of the Names are described as being the Names of Allâh and are defined in relation to Allâh. One may say that the Patient, the Compeller, and the Sovereign are among the Names of Allâh but one cannot say that Allâh is one of the Names of the Patient, the Compeller, the Sovereign. This is because the Name Allâh, is more indicative of the true nature of the meaning of divinity and is, therefore, more specific. As a result, one dispenses with trying to define it by something else whereas the other Names are defined in relationship to the Name Allâh. As the Qur'an says, "Do you know of any other that can be named with His Name?" (19:65)
tamat sudah cerita untuk semester ini... alhamdulillah.... sekarang nak tumpu untuk hal muktamar and myself. Missing classes! heh... how's Lorie doing didn't contact her since our last class that day... hope she didn't have any difficulties with the take home exam. How's Reem? Did she finished her 30 pages paper? Missed everybody now... Hope everybody is doing fine insyaAllah...
So, what did I do today? what did I do this semester? Did I pleased Allah? Did you? Did everybody?
"Our Lord! forgive us our sins and anything we may have done that transgressed our duty: establish our feet firmly, and help us against those that resist Faith." (3:147)
"He is Allah; there is no Allah but He...." (59:22)
Allah is unique in terms of true Being. No other being can be said to exist `of itself'. In fact, "Everything perishes except His Presence (Face)" (28:88). It is probable that the name Allâh occurs to indicate the Absolute in the same way that proper nouns denote particular things. Everything that can be said, however, in respect of the origin of the word is from the human point of view, that is, relative and arbitrary.
As Allah breathed His Spirit on the human form it can aspire to actualize Allah's Qualities but the possibility of this occurring is limited and relative to our own natural disposition--which Allah gave us--and the extent of our directing our motivations and perceptions towards this goal. However, gaining knowledge of Allah's Most Beautiful Names and assuming them as noble or praiseworthy character traits whatever possible makes us in no way comparable to Allah's likeness. The Qur'an clearly states, "Naught is as His likeness" (16:74) nor should one consider that sharing in every quality means a likeness. Likeness is defined as sharing in a specific thing and in essence. A horse and a human being may both be swift but their likeness ends here.
The meaning of the name Allâh is so specific that it is inconceivable that there could be any sharing of the Name whether it be metaphorically or literally. In view of this, the rest of the Names are described as being the Names of Allâh and are defined in relation to Allâh. One may say that the Patient, the Compeller, and the Sovereign are among the Names of Allâh but one cannot say that Allâh is one of the Names of the Patient, the Compeller, the Sovereign. This is because the Name Allâh, is more indicative of the true nature of the meaning of divinity and is, therefore, more specific. As a result, one dispenses with trying to define it by something else whereas the other Names are defined in relationship to the Name Allâh. As the Qur'an says, "Do you know of any other that can be named with His Name?" (19:65)
Wednesday, December 18, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
esok exam math 340! exam yang 'ditunggu-tunggu'! tadi exam astronomy alhamdulillah... study group semalam banyak membantu, semua gaya-gaya yang dibuat semalam semua membantu ingatan hari ni. For example, magnitude ratio = 100 and etc. LOL... gaya yang tak dapat ditafsirkan dengan kata-kata, perlu dilihat..
luse paper due
Sufism, mysticism : will be with you tomorrow's nite! wait for me...
The Arabic word islam literally means surrender, implying surrender to God. And a muslim, literally, is one who is surrendering; more specifically, one who is surrendering to God. Muslims believe both that islam is the quintessence of the spiritual impulse present in the earliest humans and that, as "Islam" it is the name of the religious form revealed by God to Muhammad beginning in the year 610 CE. Those who follow this particular religion are called Muslims.
esok exam math 340! exam yang 'ditunggu-tunggu'! tadi exam astronomy alhamdulillah... study group semalam banyak membantu, semua gaya-gaya yang dibuat semalam semua membantu ingatan hari ni. For example, magnitude ratio = 100 and etc. LOL... gaya yang tak dapat ditafsirkan dengan kata-kata, perlu dilihat..
luse paper due
Sufism, mysticism : will be with you tomorrow's nite! wait for me...
The Arabic word islam literally means surrender, implying surrender to God. And a muslim, literally, is one who is surrendering; more specifically, one who is surrendering to God. Muslims believe both that islam is the quintessence of the spiritual impulse present in the earliest humans and that, as "Islam" it is the name of the religious form revealed by God to Muhammad beginning in the year 610 CE. Those who follow this particular religion are called Muslims.
Tuesday, December 17, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
Please know the difference between friendship and love, or else you'll be in big trouble! heh...
Sekarang perasaan ragu-ragu samada mahu hadir muktamar atau tidak? kenapa ni khairulbariah? kenapa takmo pegi pulak? kesian nana kene handle bazar sorang2. Tak kesian kat nana ke? tengok lah, kecewa sangat-sangat ni... tak mampu nak menapak walau sejengkal pun. Ya Allah berilah kekuatan buat hamba-Mu ini ya Allah... tunjukilah aku jalan yang lurus ya Allah, aku hamba-Mu yang lemah ya Allah...
going or not going? either way, why? financial? no. health? maybe. family? yes. self-conflict? yes.
If I go, my roomates will never been able to go to sleep. Why? I'll be coughing every minutes, believe me... berat sungguh ujianMu kali ini ya Allah....
rindu pada semua rakan-rakan... rindu sangat-sangat...
Please know the difference between friendship and love, or else you'll be in big trouble! heh...
Sekarang perasaan ragu-ragu samada mahu hadir muktamar atau tidak? kenapa ni khairulbariah? kenapa takmo pegi pulak? kesian nana kene handle bazar sorang2. Tak kesian kat nana ke? tengok lah, kecewa sangat-sangat ni... tak mampu nak menapak walau sejengkal pun. Ya Allah berilah kekuatan buat hamba-Mu ini ya Allah... tunjukilah aku jalan yang lurus ya Allah, aku hamba-Mu yang lemah ya Allah...
going or not going? either way, why? financial? no. health? maybe. family? yes. self-conflict? yes.
If I go, my roomates will never been able to go to sleep. Why? I'll be coughing every minutes, believe me... berat sungguh ujianMu kali ini ya Allah....
rindu pada semua rakan-rakan... rindu sangat-sangat...
assalamualeikum wbt
last nite... hmm...
jealous of what?
of your lack of responsbility, of your immaturity, your total disregard og other people?
ahha... to name a few...
you know what, I couldn't believe I invited you here
you know what I couldn't believe, my so called sister get 35% discount on Ralph Lauren and I have to pay retail!
ohhhoooo.. 45%
you ***** !
which tv siries was this? ehehe...
"When Satan hears the call to prayer, he runs away to a distance like that of Rauha". Sulaiman said: "I asked him about Rauha." He replied, "It is at a distance of 36 miles from Medina." (Bukhari 1: 751).
“ Thou has caused me to remain disappointed I will certainly lie in wait for them in Thy straight path” (Araf 7: 16).
going to campus in an hour for study group, insyaAllah... this is the first time I ever participated in study group kind of thing. Hope I won't react weirdly.
oh oh don't forget:
Muhammad: Legacy of a Prophet
This documentary portrays the Man, the Message and the Mission, who called Moses & Jesus his brothers. His Message continues to influence mankind. Watch on PBS December 18, 2002.
last nite... hmm...
jealous of what?
of your lack of responsbility, of your immaturity, your total disregard og other people?
ahha... to name a few...
you know what, I couldn't believe I invited you here
you know what I couldn't believe, my so called sister get 35% discount on Ralph Lauren and I have to pay retail!
ohhhoooo.. 45%
you ***** !
which tv siries was this? ehehe...
"When Satan hears the call to prayer, he runs away to a distance like that of Rauha". Sulaiman said: "I asked him about Rauha." He replied, "It is at a distance of 36 miles from Medina." (Bukhari 1: 751).
“ Thou has caused me to remain disappointed I will certainly lie in wait for them in Thy straight path” (Araf 7: 16).
going to campus in an hour for study group, insyaAllah... this is the first time I ever participated in study group kind of thing. Hope I won't react weirdly.
oh oh don't forget:
Muhammad: Legacy of a Prophet
This documentary portrays the Man, the Message and the Mission, who called Moses & Jesus his brothers. His Message continues to influence mankind. Watch on PBS December 18, 2002.
Monday, December 16, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
this few days I have gotten lots of links to academic stuff, which is great! Now I can spend my time reading online alhamdulillah... had a headache before, maybe because of oversleep. Tomorrow is my first exam, my math 240 exam. Make du'a for me... may Allah make it easy for me and friends, insyaAllah...
khilafah, khalifah, khulafah ???? what's the difference?
Cyber Counselor -- islamonline.net
Question:
As-salaamu alaykum.
About befriending people who are not Muslims, various ayats in the Qur’an stress we should not take them as friends. So how should we behave and act towards them( especially their females who arent well dressed)? ma'as-salaam
Answer:
As-salaam wa alayakum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brother.
Thank-you for your question for it is a problem that many struggle with everyday. What the Qur’an actually tells us is:
“Let not the believers take the unbelievers for friends rather than believers; and whoever does this, he shall have nothing of (the guardianship of) Allah, but you should guard yourselves gainst them, guarding carefully; and Allah makes you cautious of (retribution from) Himself; and to Allah is the eventual coming” (A’lay Imran 3: 28).
So it is a question of preference of non-believers over believers. This can be further supported by the fact that Islam allows Muslim men to marry the ‘People of the Book’ i.e. believing Christians and Jews.
Islam is not just for Muslims but it is for everyone and it is best represented when we treat others as we would be treated hence the importance of human rights in Islam. We are to guard ourselves against those that would have us behave below the standard of ethics that we set for ourselves.
In our daily transactions Sufi Kabir Helminski describes this through how we behave to one another. He said: “Adab is not formality; it helps to create the context in which we develop our humanness. Every situation and relationship has its proper adab: between students on the path, in relation to family members and elders, in relation to one's sheikh. Every level of being also has its adab, including coming into the presence of Truth… We learn to observe, to control our impulses when that is called for, and to lose our "selves" when that is called for. We learn to behave as if everyone else is of a higher station than ourselves. Our conversation is centered on God and coming into harmony with God and each other. Gossip and backbiting is one of the worst actions any seeker can indulge in -- not only the speaking of it, but the listening to it, as well. Backbiting is defined as saying anything behind a person's back that would displease them (whether it is true or not). Since we are attempting to bring ourselves into alignment with Reality, we will face many tests and it is inevitable that there will be some interpersonal tensions from time to time”.
If we are firm believers in human rights and acknowledge Islam to be as a mercy to the world, then we must also translate this towards the non-Muslims who we come into contact with daily. As you have described there are aspects that we face challenging our nafs – personality or ego, but this is just a part of the many tests we face in life. The Qur’an states:
“Allah only forbids you respecting those who made war upon you on account of (your) religion, and drove you forth from your homes and backed-up (others) in your expulsion, that you make friends with them, and whoever makes friends with them, these are the unjust” (Muntahanah 60: 8).
So this makes it pretty clear as to what is in our best interest and that is only to avoid that which oppress us and deprive us of our rights. As regards to women inappropriately dressed, in general it is known what Muslims consider to be appropriate forms of dress except as a male you have no distinguishing features that can determine your religion. So it becomes incumbent upon your will to determine how best to deal with such situations – the most difficult being in a place of work or study. In your dealings, you can make it apparent without words and without being rude that it is not to your liking. Subconsciously the person concerned might eventually realize that it is not in her best interest also – Jazak Allah Khayr.
'Allahualam...
this few days I have gotten lots of links to academic stuff, which is great! Now I can spend my time reading online alhamdulillah... had a headache before, maybe because of oversleep. Tomorrow is my first exam, my math 240 exam. Make du'a for me... may Allah make it easy for me and friends, insyaAllah...
khilafah, khalifah, khulafah ???? what's the difference?
Cyber Counselor -- islamonline.net
Question:
As-salaamu alaykum.
About befriending people who are not Muslims, various ayats in the Qur’an stress we should not take them as friends. So how should we behave and act towards them( especially their females who arent well dressed)? ma'as-salaam
Answer:
As-salaam wa alayakum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brother.
Thank-you for your question for it is a problem that many struggle with everyday. What the Qur’an actually tells us is:
“Let not the believers take the unbelievers for friends rather than believers; and whoever does this, he shall have nothing of (the guardianship of) Allah, but you should guard yourselves gainst them, guarding carefully; and Allah makes you cautious of (retribution from) Himself; and to Allah is the eventual coming” (A’lay Imran 3: 28).
So it is a question of preference of non-believers over believers. This can be further supported by the fact that Islam allows Muslim men to marry the ‘People of the Book’ i.e. believing Christians and Jews.
Islam is not just for Muslims but it is for everyone and it is best represented when we treat others as we would be treated hence the importance of human rights in Islam. We are to guard ourselves against those that would have us behave below the standard of ethics that we set for ourselves.
In our daily transactions Sufi Kabir Helminski describes this through how we behave to one another. He said: “Adab is not formality; it helps to create the context in which we develop our humanness. Every situation and relationship has its proper adab: between students on the path, in relation to family members and elders, in relation to one's sheikh. Every level of being also has its adab, including coming into the presence of Truth… We learn to observe, to control our impulses when that is called for, and to lose our "selves" when that is called for. We learn to behave as if everyone else is of a higher station than ourselves. Our conversation is centered on God and coming into harmony with God and each other. Gossip and backbiting is one of the worst actions any seeker can indulge in -- not only the speaking of it, but the listening to it, as well. Backbiting is defined as saying anything behind a person's back that would displease them (whether it is true or not). Since we are attempting to bring ourselves into alignment with Reality, we will face many tests and it is inevitable that there will be some interpersonal tensions from time to time”.
If we are firm believers in human rights and acknowledge Islam to be as a mercy to the world, then we must also translate this towards the non-Muslims who we come into contact with daily. As you have described there are aspects that we face challenging our nafs – personality or ego, but this is just a part of the many tests we face in life. The Qur’an states:
“Allah only forbids you respecting those who made war upon you on account of (your) religion, and drove you forth from your homes and backed-up (others) in your expulsion, that you make friends with them, and whoever makes friends with them, these are the unjust” (Muntahanah 60: 8).
So this makes it pretty clear as to what is in our best interest and that is only to avoid that which oppress us and deprive us of our rights. As regards to women inappropriately dressed, in general it is known what Muslims consider to be appropriate forms of dress except as a male you have no distinguishing features that can determine your religion. So it becomes incumbent upon your will to determine how best to deal with such situations – the most difficult being in a place of work or study. In your dealings, you can make it apparent without words and without being rude that it is not to your liking. Subconsciously the person concerned might eventually realize that it is not in her best interest also – Jazak Allah Khayr.
'Allahualam...
Saturday, December 14, 2002
What is Luke Helder's philosophical excursions ? a 21 years old boy confessed to a pipe-bombers siries cross-country, injuring people and bringing thoughts of intruders action, the act of terroristsm. What is his problem? One of his victims said that he need to be put in the right path! but, what path is he on now?
how important a Guider is, how important to live with guidance... guidance? Quran and sunnah... from a tiny litlle thing to the biggest concern ever occur, we can refer to this holy book and the sunnah.
what is happening to the world now? what are these people thinking? well, why should I bother about other people? what about me? what did I do to contribute to the world? to my religion? to myself? knowing how little I had contributed make me feel ashamed of myself. I tried to encourage others to do so but, what about myself? did I straighten my path before I help other people? Did I help my family first?
Life is a destiny, a survival test! the weird thing is, there's no need to compete with other people, instead all of us should complete our own destiny. How? well, Everyone have their own back pack, check what is inside, and make use of it, insyaAllah...
an - Nisaa:124
how important a Guider is, how important to live with guidance... guidance? Quran and sunnah... from a tiny litlle thing to the biggest concern ever occur, we can refer to this holy book and the sunnah.
what is happening to the world now? what are these people thinking? well, why should I bother about other people? what about me? what did I do to contribute to the world? to my religion? to myself? knowing how little I had contributed make me feel ashamed of myself. I tried to encourage others to do so but, what about myself? did I straighten my path before I help other people? Did I help my family first?
Life is a destiny, a survival test! the weird thing is, there's no need to compete with other people, instead all of us should complete our own destiny. How? well, Everyone have their own back pack, check what is inside, and make use of it, insyaAllah...
an - Nisaa:124
Friday, December 13, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
I live only to do Thy will,
My lips move only in praise of Thee
O Lord, whoever becometh aware of Thee
Casteth out all else other than Thee.
O Lord, give me a heart
That I may pour it out in Thanksgiving
Give me life
That I may spend it
In working for the salvation of the world.
O Lord, give me understanding
That I stray not from the path
Give me light
To avoid pitfalls.
O Lord, give me eyes
Which see nothing but Thy glory.
Give me a mind
That finds delight in Thy service.
Give me a soul
Drunk in the wine of Thy wisdom
bro hakim let me borrow 2 of his book, Contemplation - Malik Badri and The Vicegerency of Man - Abd al Majid al Najjar
need to be organize : tonite will start with 340, tomorrow 240, sunday 240 and 340, monday and tuesday astron 100, wed 340, thursday islam 370 and friday paper is due...
oh oh don't forget astron study group on tuesday! insyaAllah...
I live only to do Thy will,
My lips move only in praise of Thee
O Lord, whoever becometh aware of Thee
Casteth out all else other than Thee.
O Lord, give me a heart
That I may pour it out in Thanksgiving
Give me life
That I may spend it
In working for the salvation of the world.
O Lord, give me understanding
That I stray not from the path
Give me light
To avoid pitfalls.
O Lord, give me eyes
Which see nothing but Thy glory.
Give me a mind
That finds delight in Thy service.
Give me a soul
Drunk in the wine of Thy wisdom
bro hakim let me borrow 2 of his book, Contemplation - Malik Badri and The Vicegerency of Man - Abd al Majid al Najjar
need to be organize : tonite will start with 340, tomorrow 240, sunday 240 and 340, monday and tuesday astron 100, wed 340, thursday islam 370 and friday paper is due...
oh oh don't forget astron study group on tuesday! insyaAllah...
Thursday, December 12, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
Today is the last day of my Islam, Religon and Culture class. He said that this class was fun, with lots of questions and students attendance are improving. However he hope more students enganged in Q and A session. Thank you prof. Mamoon!
Lori put a big coackroch on the wall outside our class today, it's for her art class. Someone thought the replica was to deliver message to students that there is coackroach in the building.. LOL...
Shinya dad's company went bancrupt. Sorry for him. He told me he need to live with 950 every month! I relied saying that I live with 607 every month! He said he'll try... Gud lak Shinya
don't feel like owning a digi cam at this moment of time! anyone intrested in buying a fujifilm digi cam? just $250 with case and extra 32mb memory card! email me if you're intrested! it is brand new, with waranty card!
If you don't believe in God, how would you explain your existence? the galaxies, the space? things need to happen for reason(s). Where does your feeling come from? what do you do when you were just about to take an exam? what were you thinking when you'ew just about to die? ohhh... don't take examples from movies and dramas, those are result from people who fantasize a perfect life, claiming that they knew everything about people, and trying to create a way of life for people, don't you think? or was it the other way round? heh...
I like the article send by bro. Hakim titled, "Read Me, My Teacher" ... few days earlier Amir was tralling me what a waste of time for us to go to class if the lecture was bored and u can still get the notes from the internet. I don't know how to explain to him in general, as I believe receiving knowledge from a teacher is better than learning by oneself. And so, I just smiled.. but today, I printed the article and tomorrow I'll give it to him and have him read it so that he understand why... hopefully...
2 more classes left before the exam starts! Wish me luck insyaAllah...
Today is the last day of my Islam, Religon and Culture class. He said that this class was fun, with lots of questions and students attendance are improving. However he hope more students enganged in Q and A session. Thank you prof. Mamoon!
Lori put a big coackroch on the wall outside our class today, it's for her art class. Someone thought the replica was to deliver message to students that there is coackroach in the building.. LOL...
Shinya dad's company went bancrupt. Sorry for him. He told me he need to live with 950 every month! I relied saying that I live with 607 every month! He said he'll try... Gud lak Shinya
don't feel like owning a digi cam at this moment of time! anyone intrested in buying a fujifilm digi cam? just $250 with case and extra 32mb memory card! email me if you're intrested! it is brand new, with waranty card!
If you don't believe in God, how would you explain your existence? the galaxies, the space? things need to happen for reason(s). Where does your feeling come from? what do you do when you were just about to take an exam? what were you thinking when you'ew just about to die? ohhh... don't take examples from movies and dramas, those are result from people who fantasize a perfect life, claiming that they knew everything about people, and trying to create a way of life for people, don't you think? or was it the other way round? heh...
I like the article send by bro. Hakim titled, "Read Me, My Teacher" ... few days earlier Amir was tralling me what a waste of time for us to go to class if the lecture was bored and u can still get the notes from the internet. I don't know how to explain to him in general, as I believe receiving knowledge from a teacher is better than learning by oneself. And so, I just smiled.. but today, I printed the article and tomorrow I'll give it to him and have him read it so that he understand why... hopefully...
2 more classes left before the exam starts! Wish me luck insyaAllah...
Wednesday, December 11, 2002
Tingkatan Cinta
(1) Cinta tertinggi - terhadap Allah swt, RasulNya, Jihad fisabilillah dan kemenangan Islam.
Rasa cinta ini merupakan asas pada cinta-cinta yang lain.Ia merupakan bukti keimanan kita pada Allah swt.Cinta ini boleh mendorong seseorang hidup dalam manhaj rabbani, iaitu merealisasikan Islam di dalam kehidupannya dan seterusnya memberi kekuatan untuk terus memperjuangkan Din yang suci ini.
Cara-caranya -
1. Putuskan ikatan keduniaan dari hidup kita.Ambillah dunia sekadar perlu sahaja. Jadikan ia sebagai landasan utk mencapai kebahagiaan di akhirat. --> sound familiar? Sufism practices kan? Love for Allah exceeding Love for anything else in this world
2. Makrifatullah - dengan jalan mengenal Allah dan sifat-sifatNya. Kata orang "Tak kenal, maka tak cinta"
Tanda-tanda mendapat kasih Allah swt:
1. Allah akan menguji hamba-hambanya dengan musibah, kesusahan dsebagainya.
2. Allah akan menyusun kehidupan yang baik padanya- di mudahkan urusan dll.
3. Manusia tidak akan mudah tertipu dgn hawa nafsu.
4. Diri akan suka kepada kematian.- sentiasa bersedia dgn amal soleh.
5. Sentiasa mengamalkan zikrullah
6. Suka bermunajat di tempat-tempat sunyi.
7. Kasih sesama Mukmin, keras terhadap kuffar.
8. Sentiasa takut pada Allah.
(2) Cinta kedua - cinta sesama makhluk Allah yang bersandarkan keimanan.
(3) Cinta yang terendah - cinta yang hanya menurut nafsu tanpa batas.
Kesan-kesannya:
1. akan jauh dari rahmat dan kasih Allah
2. jiwa akan menderita kerana terpaksa menjaga hati pasangan
3. hatinya menjadi tawanan kekasihnya, hanya menurut kehendaknya shj
4. rosak pancaindera lahir dan batin
5. hati terhijab dari hidayah Allah
(1) Cinta tertinggi - terhadap Allah swt, RasulNya, Jihad fisabilillah dan kemenangan Islam.
Rasa cinta ini merupakan asas pada cinta-cinta yang lain.Ia merupakan bukti keimanan kita pada Allah swt.Cinta ini boleh mendorong seseorang hidup dalam manhaj rabbani, iaitu merealisasikan Islam di dalam kehidupannya dan seterusnya memberi kekuatan untuk terus memperjuangkan Din yang suci ini.
Cara-caranya -
1. Putuskan ikatan keduniaan dari hidup kita.Ambillah dunia sekadar perlu sahaja. Jadikan ia sebagai landasan utk mencapai kebahagiaan di akhirat. --> sound familiar? Sufism practices kan? Love for Allah exceeding Love for anything else in this world
2. Makrifatullah - dengan jalan mengenal Allah dan sifat-sifatNya. Kata orang "Tak kenal, maka tak cinta"
Tanda-tanda mendapat kasih Allah swt:
1. Allah akan menguji hamba-hambanya dengan musibah, kesusahan dsebagainya.
2. Allah akan menyusun kehidupan yang baik padanya- di mudahkan urusan dll.
3. Manusia tidak akan mudah tertipu dgn hawa nafsu.
4. Diri akan suka kepada kematian.- sentiasa bersedia dgn amal soleh.
5. Sentiasa mengamalkan zikrullah
6. Suka bermunajat di tempat-tempat sunyi.
7. Kasih sesama Mukmin, keras terhadap kuffar.
8. Sentiasa takut pada Allah.
(2) Cinta kedua - cinta sesama makhluk Allah yang bersandarkan keimanan.
(3) Cinta yang terendah - cinta yang hanya menurut nafsu tanpa batas.
Kesan-kesannya:
1. akan jauh dari rahmat dan kasih Allah
2. jiwa akan menderita kerana terpaksa menjaga hati pasangan
3. hatinya menjadi tawanan kekasihnya, hanya menurut kehendaknya shj
4. rosak pancaindera lahir dan batin
5. hati terhijab dari hidayah Allah
Pesanan Untuk Lelaki
Jangan engkau kahwini wanita yang enam, jangan yang ananah, yang mananah,dan yang hananah,dan jangan engkau kahwini yang hadaqah, yang baraqah dan yang syadaqah'
wanita Ananah banyak mengeluh dan mengadu, dan tiap saat memperalatkan sakit atau buat-buat sakit.
wanita Mananah suka membangkit-bangkit terhadap suami. wanita ini menyatakan 'aku membuat itu keranamu'.
wanita Hananah menyatakan kasih sayangnya kepada suaminya yang lain, yang dikahwininya sebelum ini atau kepada anaknya dari suami yang lain.
wanita Hadaqah melemparkan pandangan dan matanya pada tiap sesuatu, lalu menyatakan keinginannya utk memiliki barang itu dan memaksa suaminya untuk membelinya.
wanita Baraqah ada 2 makna, pertama yang sepanjang hari mengilatkan dan menghias mukanya, kedua dia marah ketika makan dan tidak mahu makan kecuali sendirian dan diasingkannya bahagianya.
wanita Syadaqah banyak cakap, tidak menentu lagi bising.
Dicatat oleh Imam Al-Ghazalli
Jangan engkau kahwini wanita yang enam, jangan yang ananah, yang mananah,dan yang hananah,dan jangan engkau kahwini yang hadaqah, yang baraqah dan yang syadaqah'
wanita Ananah banyak mengeluh dan mengadu, dan tiap saat memperalatkan sakit atau buat-buat sakit.
wanita Mananah suka membangkit-bangkit terhadap suami. wanita ini menyatakan 'aku membuat itu keranamu'.
wanita Hananah menyatakan kasih sayangnya kepada suaminya yang lain, yang dikahwininya sebelum ini atau kepada anaknya dari suami yang lain.
wanita Hadaqah melemparkan pandangan dan matanya pada tiap sesuatu, lalu menyatakan keinginannya utk memiliki barang itu dan memaksa suaminya untuk membelinya.
wanita Baraqah ada 2 makna, pertama yang sepanjang hari mengilatkan dan menghias mukanya, kedua dia marah ketika makan dan tidak mahu makan kecuali sendirian dan diasingkannya bahagianya.
wanita Syadaqah banyak cakap, tidak menentu lagi bising.
Dicatat oleh Imam Al-Ghazalli
assalamualeikum wbt
hmm... not a very good day today! have few things came up, and I wish I wasn't there watching it. My cough is getting worse. Hope it's just a normal cough virus... insyaAllah...
in astronomy class today, we had lecture on the Big Bang theories. Prof. Marche showed us a slide on a picture where the astronomers describe how the universe is created. From one source, it just bang out and grew rapidly and first made the atom, and then the growing rate slow down, and after about 300,000 years later, the galacies started to occur. What interest me was that, in the slide, where he drew the source adn everything it was bounded, and thus what is it on the outer boundary? was it another Big Bang? or nothing? or...
people just think that everything that happen need to have a scientific explanation behind it. They do not want (not all) want to take it as God's power. Well, I think both are parallel, except nothing could exceed God's power. Don't people think God is bright enough to know all this, before he created it? and we, as the tiny little creature, trying to discover His intelligent and yet never agree it was because of His power that we had all that have now? What were we thinking?
In Islam class, Prof. Mamoon was discussing on Syiah's festivals, the moruning of Hussain where the Syiats march from one place to the other and injuring themselves (hit thier shoulder, hit their back with chains and etc.). questions arose;
Did the Sunni celebrate it too?
Yes, but they see it differently, and the way they celebrate it is different too. The Sunni rather gathered and go through the story, how it happened, and reflct it on themselves.
The Asyura Day, the tenth day of any month, in particular for the syiah's the tenth day of Muharram.
Yazid -- in Iran, people are so annoyed by the name Yazid, I forgot why, but I guess it relates to Hussain's story, they even said "
son of yazid"
Lorie drove me home today, Thanks Lorie! She felt sorry because she thought I got the cough and fever from her. I keep telling her no, but she keep insisting that she did. Nice of you Lorie! Her husband is sick too... may he get well soon, insyaAllah...
Took some medicine before and feel sleepy rite now...
hmm... not a very good day today! have few things came up, and I wish I wasn't there watching it. My cough is getting worse. Hope it's just a normal cough virus... insyaAllah...
in astronomy class today, we had lecture on the Big Bang theories. Prof. Marche showed us a slide on a picture where the astronomers describe how the universe is created. From one source, it just bang out and grew rapidly and first made the atom, and then the growing rate slow down, and after about 300,000 years later, the galacies started to occur. What interest me was that, in the slide, where he drew the source adn everything it was bounded, and thus what is it on the outer boundary? was it another Big Bang? or nothing? or...
people just think that everything that happen need to have a scientific explanation behind it. They do not want (not all) want to take it as God's power. Well, I think both are parallel, except nothing could exceed God's power. Don't people think God is bright enough to know all this, before he created it? and we, as the tiny little creature, trying to discover His intelligent and yet never agree it was because of His power that we had all that have now? What were we thinking?
In Islam class, Prof. Mamoon was discussing on Syiah's festivals, the moruning of Hussain where the Syiats march from one place to the other and injuring themselves (hit thier shoulder, hit their back with chains and etc.). questions arose;
Did the Sunni celebrate it too?
Yes, but they see it differently, and the way they celebrate it is different too. The Sunni rather gathered and go through the story, how it happened, and reflct it on themselves.
The Asyura Day, the tenth day of any month, in particular for the syiah's the tenth day of Muharram.
Yazid -- in Iran, people are so annoyed by the name Yazid, I forgot why, but I guess it relates to Hussain's story, they even said "
son of yazid"
Lorie drove me home today, Thanks Lorie! She felt sorry because she thought I got the cough and fever from her. I keep telling her no, but she keep insisting that she did. Nice of you Lorie! Her husband is sick too... may he get well soon, insyaAllah...
Took some medicine before and feel sleepy rite now...
Tuesday, December 10, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
in class today,
nothing much happened. Lori and I are both sick... we just hope both of us will get better soon. Amir sat next to us today, and he told me how he annoyed by our astron' professor jokes. I just smiled... and then, I asked him " what is ur religion?" He said, "I'll answered it after class."
Prof Mamoon didn't continue with new topics today, instead he just elaborated what he already spoken last week and also answered questions.
He talk about Muslims fantasy on Paradise... the 70 virgin and stuff... actually all of this , no not all, some of it are just a fantasy made up to give picture to individual what it looks like, the afterdeath life. For example, if you were to explain to desert people what snow is, you wouldn't know how they will intreprate it in their mind. This is just the same occasion.
He also talk about Muslims festivals, and he refered to my Eid's open house as an example. "I thought you might bring something for me today!" insyaAllah tomorrow prof.
hmm...
after class,
"hey, about ur question before..."
"I was born in Jewish culture, but I don't believe in their god"
hmm.. moga Allah buka pintu hatinya untuk menjamah nikmat Islam.... ameen...
email dibawah dicckan to me, maybe because I was part of the conversation:
Assalamualaikum wrmth
Akh, first of all ana nak minta maaf (buat kali yang beribunya) atas tutur
kata yang pada ana sendiri tidak appropriate sepanjang per'bual'an kita.
Again, may Allah forgive me for things I fail to be aware of.
'Afwan .. ana pun sama. May Allah forgive all of us. I'm just 'cc'ing this
email so that everyone knows yg kita bukannya selalu berbual sebegitu. I
know they are good friends and would not think yg 'pelik2'. But verily
shaytaan runs in our veins.
Jzkk. Fi amanillah. Wassalaam.
lumrah lah tu, women feel insecure in whatever they did, and also as an act of preserving their alibi. It's a good thing though... yep, when u want to change, u need to change the whole you, not just parts that u think u should change. When u want to live Islam, it means in every aspect of your life, not only in certain ways.
was coughing badly in class and at work today. I almost locked out a girl in the library just now. Didn't noticed that she was inside the private study room. Sorry girl...
in class today,
nothing much happened. Lori and I are both sick... we just hope both of us will get better soon. Amir sat next to us today, and he told me how he annoyed by our astron' professor jokes. I just smiled... and then, I asked him " what is ur religion?" He said, "I'll answered it after class."
Prof Mamoon didn't continue with new topics today, instead he just elaborated what he already spoken last week and also answered questions.
He talk about Muslims fantasy on Paradise... the 70 virgin and stuff... actually all of this , no not all, some of it are just a fantasy made up to give picture to individual what it looks like, the afterdeath life. For example, if you were to explain to desert people what snow is, you wouldn't know how they will intreprate it in their mind. This is just the same occasion.
He also talk about Muslims festivals, and he refered to my Eid's open house as an example. "I thought you might bring something for me today!" insyaAllah tomorrow prof.
hmm...
after class,
"hey, about ur question before..."
"I was born in Jewish culture, but I don't believe in their god"
hmm.. moga Allah buka pintu hatinya untuk menjamah nikmat Islam.... ameen...
email dibawah dicckan to me, maybe because I was part of the conversation:
Assalamualaikum wrmth
Akh, first of all ana nak minta maaf (buat kali yang beribunya) atas tutur
kata yang pada ana sendiri tidak appropriate sepanjang per'bual'an kita.
Again, may Allah forgive me for things I fail to be aware of.
'Afwan .. ana pun sama. May Allah forgive all of us. I'm just 'cc'ing this
email so that everyone knows yg kita bukannya selalu berbual sebegitu. I
know they are good friends and would not think yg 'pelik2'. But verily
shaytaan runs in our veins.
Jzkk. Fi amanillah. Wassalaam.
lumrah lah tu, women feel insecure in whatever they did, and also as an act of preserving their alibi. It's a good thing though... yep, when u want to change, u need to change the whole you, not just parts that u think u should change. When u want to live Islam, it means in every aspect of your life, not only in certain ways.
was coughing badly in class and at work today. I almost locked out a girl in the library just now. Didn't noticed that she was inside the private study room. Sorry girl...
Monday, December 09, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
received this email below today, should or shoudln't I? What will I be doing as an IT burea? develop website? hmm... cs 354 next sem!
insyaAllah, I can try... jangan letak jawatan lagi mcm dalam MISA ni sudah yek.. hehehe...
Assalamu 'alaykum wrt
Kib,
Semoga emel ni menemui Kib dlm ketinggian iman dan
kemanisan amal yg berpanjangan.
Barisan HELWA 2001/02 telah sebulan suara mencalonkan Kib
sebagai Lujnah IT bagi barisan HELWA
bagi sessi 2002/03. Adalah menjadi harapan kami Kib
menerima pencalonan ini insha Allah.
Diharapkan supaya Kib sudi memberi persetujuan menerima
amanah yg diberi selewat-lewatnya Dec 15,
2002 (ahad) - any question, emel me ye.
Semoga Allah menerima apa yg kita lakukan,
wassalamu 'alaykum wrt,
k rush
not felling very well today, nak demam jer macam.. sakit tekak pun ada... went to work place but couldn't work, just informing them that I will be out of sick today! moga cepat sembuh khairulbariah....
saw pictures at uwmisa hehehe... wondered whose camera was it? so happy to have pictures with the twin, ashraf and shafiq.... gonna missed them...
still waiting for eid cards from friends...
received this email below today, should or shoudln't I? What will I be doing as an IT burea? develop website? hmm... cs 354 next sem!
insyaAllah, I can try... jangan letak jawatan lagi mcm dalam MISA ni sudah yek.. hehehe...
Assalamu 'alaykum wrt
Kib,
Semoga emel ni menemui Kib dlm ketinggian iman dan
kemanisan amal yg berpanjangan.
Barisan HELWA 2001/02 telah sebulan suara mencalonkan Kib
sebagai Lujnah IT bagi barisan HELWA
bagi sessi 2002/03. Adalah menjadi harapan kami Kib
menerima pencalonan ini insha Allah.
Diharapkan supaya Kib sudi memberi persetujuan menerima
amanah yg diberi selewat-lewatnya Dec 15,
2002 (ahad) - any question, emel me ye.
Semoga Allah menerima apa yg kita lakukan,
wassalamu 'alaykum wrt,
k rush
not felling very well today, nak demam jer macam.. sakit tekak pun ada... went to work place but couldn't work, just informing them that I will be out of sick today! moga cepat sembuh khairulbariah....
saw pictures at uwmisa hehehe... wondered whose camera was it? so happy to have pictures with the twin, ashraf and shafiq.... gonna missed them...
still waiting for eid cards from friends...
Sunday, December 08, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
below are comments on my paper:
very intresting and well-supported - but where is the video?
With regard to self-actualization and standing out from others, this raises the question: Did God create one perfect human model, which should be rigidly imitated by everyone, with differences amounting to defects? Or did God create differences so humans could develop and actualize their very different natures while learning from each others' radical differences?
"we made you into nations and tribes that ye may know each other..." Al - Hujarat : 13
Again a very good discussion - but not a video review
I got 17 out of 20. Alhamdulillah... Amir got 20! I read his, and he deserves full point
went to Milwaukee today, to Kak Fairuz and Kak Nur house. Kak Nur cook chicken and Kak Fairuz (well, actually her husband) cook laksa perlis... both are so delicious! alhamdulillah...
sambil salam kak Nur she said, " kib dah daftar dah kan?" then she laughed! hmm... I wonder what she meant!
below are comments on my paper:
very intresting and well-supported - but where is the video?
With regard to self-actualization and standing out from others, this raises the question: Did God create one perfect human model, which should be rigidly imitated by everyone, with differences amounting to defects? Or did God create differences so humans could develop and actualize their very different natures while learning from each others' radical differences?
"we made you into nations and tribes that ye may know each other..." Al - Hujarat : 13
Again a very good discussion - but not a video review
I got 17 out of 20. Alhamdulillah... Amir got 20! I read his, and he deserves full point
went to Milwaukee today, to Kak Fairuz and Kak Nur house. Kak Nur cook chicken and Kak Fairuz (well, actually her husband) cook laksa perlis... both are so delicious! alhamdulillah...
sambil salam kak Nur she said, " kib dah daftar dah kan?" then she laughed! hmm... I wonder what she meant!
Saturday, December 07, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
alhamdulillah tamatlah sudah aktiviti sambutan aidilfitri di kawasan Madison (I hope)... Never felt this exthausted before, got no sleep since Thursday till Friday night. It was fun though, me and friend cook rendang, nasi impit (traditionally made), nasi minyak, ayam masak merah, satay ayam dan daging (few incidents happened while baking this...) and kuah kacang. While preparing all this, I also made solok lada (againnnn!) and eat together. Ijan had to finish her paper on the Eid, so she couldn't help much... poor her!
people started coming as early as 10:00 am, right after the Eid prayer, and after that our apartment was crowded with friends. People stop coming after 9:00 pm, and our last guest was Kak Sah and her family. We cleaned up the kicthen, washed all dishes, and gathered all the left overs, fuhhhhhhh it was tiring. At about 10:00 pm, few friends (juniors who live in dorms) came over to help us made the satay again for today's event! 3 of the, Deya, Effa and Shima. I gave them all the ingredient to be mixed up with the chicken and beef, and the I went to sleep. Buttttt they forgot to put few things and so the satay just become regular 'daging bakar'! I woke at 3 am to find my house smelling wierd.
Today we went to Kak Intan house at Middleton (close to Angie's house)! Met her sons, Andy and Adam. eat and eat and eat and took pictures and then went back home. Took a nap and then start writing here.
What I get from all above?
Everything is cultural, so if anybody never did showed up, it is not a sin, and they're not to be blamed of. Eat to live, not live to eat. I guess it must be hard for few friends who had just lost their beloved mother. Moga roh mereka dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan dikalangan orang yang diredhai-Nya ameen...
finally my Eid cards from family and friends arrive. I got one from my family, from 'adik Aseks', Sarah (suprisingly)... thanks to everybody who send me the card.
Kalau ada sesiapa ada tips on how to manage your little sister, please share with me. I mean a stubborn, problematic sister. Thanks.
Thank you Allah, thank you Allah!
alhamdulillah tamatlah sudah aktiviti sambutan aidilfitri di kawasan Madison (I hope)... Never felt this exthausted before, got no sleep since Thursday till Friday night. It was fun though, me and friend cook rendang, nasi impit (traditionally made), nasi minyak, ayam masak merah, satay ayam dan daging (few incidents happened while baking this...) and kuah kacang. While preparing all this, I also made solok lada (againnnn!) and eat together. Ijan had to finish her paper on the Eid, so she couldn't help much... poor her!
people started coming as early as 10:00 am, right after the Eid prayer, and after that our apartment was crowded with friends. People stop coming after 9:00 pm, and our last guest was Kak Sah and her family. We cleaned up the kicthen, washed all dishes, and gathered all the left overs, fuhhhhhhh it was tiring. At about 10:00 pm, few friends (juniors who live in dorms) came over to help us made the satay again for today's event! 3 of the, Deya, Effa and Shima. I gave them all the ingredient to be mixed up with the chicken and beef, and the I went to sleep. Buttttt they forgot to put few things and so the satay just become regular 'daging bakar'! I woke at 3 am to find my house smelling wierd.
Today we went to Kak Intan house at Middleton (close to Angie's house)! Met her sons, Andy and Adam. eat and eat and eat and took pictures and then went back home. Took a nap and then start writing here.
What I get from all above?
Everything is cultural, so if anybody never did showed up, it is not a sin, and they're not to be blamed of. Eat to live, not live to eat. I guess it must be hard for few friends who had just lost their beloved mother. Moga roh mereka dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan dikalangan orang yang diredhai-Nya ameen...
finally my Eid cards from family and friends arrive. I got one from my family, from 'adik Aseks', Sarah (suprisingly)... thanks to everybody who send me the card.
Kalau ada sesiapa ada tips on how to manage your little sister, please share with me. I mean a stubborn, problematic sister. Thanks.
Thank you Allah, thank you Allah!
Thursday, December 05, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
for article below, use ur common sense... Allah sahajalah tempat mengadu dan memohon pertolongan ...
10 sikap wanita yang disukai lelaki
Banyak lelaki yg terpikat pada wanita yg bersikap keibuan,lembut,mengambil berat dan penuh kasih sayang. Wajah yg keibuan mampu membuatlelaki berasa tenteram ketika sedang stress, cemas dan gelisah dan senang hati ketika mahu bermanja. Jangan tunggu sampai melahirkan baru nak tonjolkan sikap keibuan. Setiap wanita ada potensi keibuan dalam diri masing2.
Keanak-anakkan
Dalam batas yg wajar, sifat keanak-anakan seorang wanita menjadi daya tarikan di mata lelaki. Mereka berasa terhibur dengan keletah anda. tetapi tentulah bukan sifat keanak-anakkan yg melampau dan menyakitkan hati tetapi sikap keanak-anakan yg menyenangkan. Misalnya, kemanjaan wanita yg membangkitkan naluri kebapaan dan kelakian lelaki. Wanita ceria membuat lelaki lebih berghairah.
Penuh Pengertian
Sikap pengertian wanita membuat lelaki berasa dihargai dan diterima seadanya. Sikap ini tercermin dari perasaan mudah memaafkan, memilih waktu yg tepat utk berbincang masalah dan sebagainya. Contohnya ketika lelaki melakukan kesilapan, wanita yg berpengertian tidak terus mengeluarkan kata2 yg kasar atau menuduh bukan2 sebaliknya cuba mengerti duduk persoalannya.
Menghargai
Wanita yg menghargai lelaki adalah wanita idaman lelaki. Berbeza dgn wanita yg suka diperlakukan dgn lembut, lelaki suka dihargai,dipuji dgn tulus ikhlas dan diberi kepercayaan. Penghargaan dari wanita membuatlelaki berasa bangga.
Menjaga Penampilan
Lelaki menyukai wanita yg pandai menjaga penampilannya agar sentiasa kelihatan cantik, bersih, kemas dan menarik. Penampilan yg baik menunjukkan wanita tersebut menghargai dirinya.Dia akan murah senyuman,pandai merawat tubuhnya, meningkatkan kualiti hidupnya dan memberi yg terbaik kepada dirinya.Dia suka dan bersyukur dengan dirinya dan secara tidak langsung memancarkan pesona yg menyebabkan lelaki juga menyukainya. Apabila sudah berumahtangga, wanita tersebut terus menjaga penampilan dirinya dan kesihatan tubuh badan walau sudah beranak-pinak. Siapa yg tidak suka isteri yg masih kelihatan cantik dan ramping walau dah punya anak 3??
Pandai berbicara
Lelaki tertarik dgn wanita yg pandai berkomunikasi dan boleh diajak berbual. Walau topik perbualan yg disukai lelaki berbeza dgn topik kegemaran wanita,wanita tersebut dapat mengimbanginya. Dia bukan sekadar teman berbual yg pasif, tetapi dapat memberi respon dan pendapat yg baik. Dia juga tahu menjadi pendengar yg baik, serta mengalihkan topik yg agak serius kepada perbualan yg lebih menarik. Lelaki juga suka dengan wanita yg suka bergurau dan pandai berjenaka serta boleh menerima jenaka lelaki dgn baik dan berfikiran terbuka.
Pandai Bergaul dan Menyesuaikan Diri
Wanita yg pandai bergaul dan menyesuaikan diri mempunyai nilai lebih di mata lelaki. Wanita tersebut tahu menghadapi orang yg lebih tua dan cara berhadapan dgn orang yg lebih muda. Apabila berhadapan dgn suasana yg baru,wanita tersebut tidak gentar malah cepat menyesuaikan diri. Dia mudah di ajak ke mana saja dan tidak kekok samada di bandar atau di kampung.
Menghormati Diri Sendiri
Lelaki suka dgn wanita yg menghormati dirinya sendiri sebagai seorang wanita, bersikap sopan dan mempunyai etika. Wanita yg menghormati dirinya sendiri mempunyai keyakinan dan tahu apa yg baik dan buruk diperlakukan oleh seorang lelaki terhadap dirinya. Jadi dia tahu apa yg dia inginkan dan mahu elakkan serta menjaga maruah dirinya. Dia tidak akan merendah-rendahkan dirinya dan tidak akan membiarkan lelaki memperlakukan dirinya sesuka hati.
Simpati dan prihatin
Lelaki suka wanita yg murah hati, mengambil berat, simpati pada nasib yg susah, sayangkan kanak-kanak dan tidak memilih bulu. Kebaikan yg wajar dan spontan mencerminkan hati yg mulia. Ada kecantikan dalaman pada dirinya yg memancar keluar dgn indah dan mempesona.
ye la sangat... seksi2 lg suke yek? gemuk2? eiiii... geli katenye... pastu dok bayang bukan2.. jantan la tu
Nota: ye ke? kaum adam sekalian... betul ke ni?
for article below, use ur common sense... Allah sahajalah tempat mengadu dan memohon pertolongan ...
10 sikap wanita yang disukai lelaki
Banyak lelaki yg terpikat pada wanita yg bersikap keibuan,lembut,mengambil berat dan penuh kasih sayang. Wajah yg keibuan mampu membuatlelaki berasa tenteram ketika sedang stress, cemas dan gelisah dan senang hati ketika mahu bermanja. Jangan tunggu sampai melahirkan baru nak tonjolkan sikap keibuan. Setiap wanita ada potensi keibuan dalam diri masing2.
Keanak-anakkan
Dalam batas yg wajar, sifat keanak-anakan seorang wanita menjadi daya tarikan di mata lelaki. Mereka berasa terhibur dengan keletah anda. tetapi tentulah bukan sifat keanak-anakkan yg melampau dan menyakitkan hati tetapi sikap keanak-anakan yg menyenangkan. Misalnya, kemanjaan wanita yg membangkitkan naluri kebapaan dan kelakian lelaki. Wanita ceria membuat lelaki lebih berghairah.
Penuh Pengertian
Sikap pengertian wanita membuat lelaki berasa dihargai dan diterima seadanya. Sikap ini tercermin dari perasaan mudah memaafkan, memilih waktu yg tepat utk berbincang masalah dan sebagainya. Contohnya ketika lelaki melakukan kesilapan, wanita yg berpengertian tidak terus mengeluarkan kata2 yg kasar atau menuduh bukan2 sebaliknya cuba mengerti duduk persoalannya.
Menghargai
Wanita yg menghargai lelaki adalah wanita idaman lelaki. Berbeza dgn wanita yg suka diperlakukan dgn lembut, lelaki suka dihargai,dipuji dgn tulus ikhlas dan diberi kepercayaan. Penghargaan dari wanita membuatlelaki berasa bangga.
Menjaga Penampilan
Lelaki menyukai wanita yg pandai menjaga penampilannya agar sentiasa kelihatan cantik, bersih, kemas dan menarik. Penampilan yg baik menunjukkan wanita tersebut menghargai dirinya.Dia akan murah senyuman,pandai merawat tubuhnya, meningkatkan kualiti hidupnya dan memberi yg terbaik kepada dirinya.Dia suka dan bersyukur dengan dirinya dan secara tidak langsung memancarkan pesona yg menyebabkan lelaki juga menyukainya. Apabila sudah berumahtangga, wanita tersebut terus menjaga penampilan dirinya dan kesihatan tubuh badan walau sudah beranak-pinak. Siapa yg tidak suka isteri yg masih kelihatan cantik dan ramping walau dah punya anak 3??
Pandai berbicara
Lelaki tertarik dgn wanita yg pandai berkomunikasi dan boleh diajak berbual. Walau topik perbualan yg disukai lelaki berbeza dgn topik kegemaran wanita,wanita tersebut dapat mengimbanginya. Dia bukan sekadar teman berbual yg pasif, tetapi dapat memberi respon dan pendapat yg baik. Dia juga tahu menjadi pendengar yg baik, serta mengalihkan topik yg agak serius kepada perbualan yg lebih menarik. Lelaki juga suka dengan wanita yg suka bergurau dan pandai berjenaka serta boleh menerima jenaka lelaki dgn baik dan berfikiran terbuka.
Pandai Bergaul dan Menyesuaikan Diri
Wanita yg pandai bergaul dan menyesuaikan diri mempunyai nilai lebih di mata lelaki. Wanita tersebut tahu menghadapi orang yg lebih tua dan cara berhadapan dgn orang yg lebih muda. Apabila berhadapan dgn suasana yg baru,wanita tersebut tidak gentar malah cepat menyesuaikan diri. Dia mudah di ajak ke mana saja dan tidak kekok samada di bandar atau di kampung.
Menghormati Diri Sendiri
Lelaki suka dgn wanita yg menghormati dirinya sendiri sebagai seorang wanita, bersikap sopan dan mempunyai etika. Wanita yg menghormati dirinya sendiri mempunyai keyakinan dan tahu apa yg baik dan buruk diperlakukan oleh seorang lelaki terhadap dirinya. Jadi dia tahu apa yg dia inginkan dan mahu elakkan serta menjaga maruah dirinya. Dia tidak akan merendah-rendahkan dirinya dan tidak akan membiarkan lelaki memperlakukan dirinya sesuka hati.
Simpati dan prihatin
Lelaki suka wanita yg murah hati, mengambil berat, simpati pada nasib yg susah, sayangkan kanak-kanak dan tidak memilih bulu. Kebaikan yg wajar dan spontan mencerminkan hati yg mulia. Ada kecantikan dalaman pada dirinya yg memancar keluar dgn indah dan mempesona.
ye la sangat... seksi2 lg suke yek? gemuk2? eiiii... geli katenye... pastu dok bayang bukan2.. jantan la tu
Nota: ye ke? kaum adam sekalian... betul ke ni?
Tuesday, December 03, 2002
assalamualeikum wbt
in class today,
Lorie told me about her thanksgiving at her parent's house. Her dad lectured John about getting a job. As he have a green card, he should get some work so that Lorie don't have to work 40 hours per week. She also need to go to class. John only play drum... John are looking for job rite now! but Lorie said, " whatever is his decision, I'll support him, he's my husband!" nice Lorie... then Abbi came and joined us.. she also had class at 1 pm. She asked me about Ramadan... Abbi is from Cenegal too... then Amir came and said hi... then he left!
about 10 minutes before class started, we find our seat. To my suprise, Amir pick a place next to us... with a smile on his face, he ask about the eid, when will it be? maybe Thursday or Friday! Lorie teased me ... hmm... naughty Lorie...
Today prof Mamoon talked about Saint Worship and Muharram but he only finished the first one and will continue the second one tomorrow insyaAllah... oh oh and got my video critic essay back! good job khairulbariah, Amir got 20/20! Way to go! Amir!!!
Why such action occur if people believe in oneness and uniqueness of God? Why? Muslims believe that everything have been laid out to them till the end...
Actually, what is required for them by God?
to be a good Muslim? How do you define good? God gives us knowledge, capability to literally understand and learn the Quran, and therefore ignorance of law is no execuse kan?
UMMI - a little...
What would or should you do when older people came in a crowd of young people who are sitting? Should you stand up and give respect for him? or do nothing? well, yes u can but that's just the act of goodness, it is not required... bla bla bla
Prof. gave many examples and one time, I had question in mind, "Is the saint person only a guy or there are women who is considered saint?" soon he gave example of a widow who could just mumble words to a sick person and that sick person got well! 'Allahualam...
Looking forward for tomorrow class. Muharram - ?mourning of ....? didn't hear quite well..
in class today,
Lorie told me about her thanksgiving at her parent's house. Her dad lectured John about getting a job. As he have a green card, he should get some work so that Lorie don't have to work 40 hours per week. She also need to go to class. John only play drum... John are looking for job rite now! but Lorie said, " whatever is his decision, I'll support him, he's my husband!" nice Lorie... then Abbi came and joined us.. she also had class at 1 pm. She asked me about Ramadan... Abbi is from Cenegal too... then Amir came and said hi... then he left!
about 10 minutes before class started, we find our seat. To my suprise, Amir pick a place next to us... with a smile on his face, he ask about the eid, when will it be? maybe Thursday or Friday! Lorie teased me ... hmm... naughty Lorie...
Today prof Mamoon talked about Saint Worship and Muharram but he only finished the first one and will continue the second one tomorrow insyaAllah... oh oh and got my video critic essay back! good job khairulbariah, Amir got 20/20! Way to go! Amir!!!
Why such action occur if people believe in oneness and uniqueness of God? Why? Muslims believe that everything have been laid out to them till the end...
Actually, what is required for them by God?
to be a good Muslim? How do you define good? God gives us knowledge, capability to literally understand and learn the Quran, and therefore ignorance of law is no execuse kan?
UMMI - a little...
What would or should you do when older people came in a crowd of young people who are sitting? Should you stand up and give respect for him? or do nothing? well, yes u can but that's just the act of goodness, it is not required... bla bla bla
Prof. gave many examples and one time, I had question in mind, "Is the saint person only a guy or there are women who is considered saint?" soon he gave example of a widow who could just mumble words to a sick person and that sick person got well! 'Allahualam...
Looking forward for tomorrow class. Muharram - ?mourning of ....? didn't hear quite well..
assalamualeikum wbt
bersiap-siap nak pergi melawat sahabat ana, durra yang akan bertolak pulang ke tanah air esok petang... ana doakan lancar perjalanannya insyaAllah...
bercakap ttg pemakain purdah, ana teringat bapa saudara ana sewaktu ana berusia lebey kurang 10 tahun mcm tu... ana balik kampung... biase lah org terengganu, dlm satu kawasan tu penuh satu family tinggal, termasuk family besar ana.... kebetulan my maternal grandparents and paternal grandparents are siblings and live close to each other... kire macam umah atok belakang, umah tok mek selang 2 rumah camtu.. yg 2 rumah tu tok saudara and mak saudara... kalau balik kg, selalunya kami tido di rumah atok (belah mak) sebab umah tok mek (belah ayah) penuh dgn cucu-cucunya yang lain... semuanya menetap dalam satu rumah...tak la semuanya...
2 - 3 hari lepas sampai kampung, ana nak melawat tok mek, ana pun pegi lah kerumahnya, kene naik tangga, depan rumah tok mek ialah rumah bapa saudara ana, yang ana panggil ayah we (org lain panggil die Hj We.. belum gi haji lg tp..) ana naik 2 - 3 tangga, nama ana dipanggil... ayah we panggil... ana pergi la... die kate,
"siape die ajar mu pakai seluar ni... orang perempuan tak pakai seluar... org laki je pakai seluar... gi balik tuka.. tudung pun tak pakai... gi balik pakai tudung!"
ana pun baliklah umah atok dan mak pun tanye and ana pun ceritakanlah... lepas tu ana tak pasti apa yg jadi... tp terngiang-ngiang kata-kata ni, "tutup habis pun, hati dok molek sama gok... " ana tak ingat sape yg ckp tapi ana ingat ada org sebut ttg ni....
adik beradik abah yang perempuan dan kakak and adik ipar abah yg perempuan semuanya pakai purdah... tp logik la depa pakai.. mmg lawa-lawa semuanya... tok mek cakap, "mana la budak-budak ni dapat lawa-lawa macam tu.." hehehe... mak ngan abah sepupu, maka tidaklah menjadi isu... tp masa kat sekolah dulu, kawan-kawan selalu ckp, in fact cikgu2 pun ckp jugak, kalau kawin sepupu ni anak-anak byk masalah, lembap belaja, banyak penyakit... 'Allahualam...
td berenti sat.. pi umah durra, melawat die nak balik dah esok! byk jugak brg2 nye... harap semuanya ok2 saje ... ramai jugak yg ada td, budak2 blair, ilham and lan, even chinese friends pun datang.. nice of them...
surah An - Nisaa : 124 :: contoh 'adil' dalam Islam. rewards are given to both men and women who did good deed, and who are soleh and solehah... dan mereka tidak dianiaya walau sedikitpun...
surah An - Nisaa banyak bercakap ttg hak - hak wanita, pembahagian harta dan anak - anak selepas berlaku perceraian, hak - hak anak yatim dan lain-lain...
masih lg tak dapat kad raya dr sesiapa... record ni!
bersiap-siap nak pergi melawat sahabat ana, durra yang akan bertolak pulang ke tanah air esok petang... ana doakan lancar perjalanannya insyaAllah...
bercakap ttg pemakain purdah, ana teringat bapa saudara ana sewaktu ana berusia lebey kurang 10 tahun mcm tu... ana balik kampung... biase lah org terengganu, dlm satu kawasan tu penuh satu family tinggal, termasuk family besar ana.... kebetulan my maternal grandparents and paternal grandparents are siblings and live close to each other... kire macam umah atok belakang, umah tok mek selang 2 rumah camtu.. yg 2 rumah tu tok saudara and mak saudara... kalau balik kg, selalunya kami tido di rumah atok (belah mak) sebab umah tok mek (belah ayah) penuh dgn cucu-cucunya yang lain... semuanya menetap dalam satu rumah...tak la semuanya...
2 - 3 hari lepas sampai kampung, ana nak melawat tok mek, ana pun pegi lah kerumahnya, kene naik tangga, depan rumah tok mek ialah rumah bapa saudara ana, yang ana panggil ayah we (org lain panggil die Hj We.. belum gi haji lg tp..) ana naik 2 - 3 tangga, nama ana dipanggil... ayah we panggil... ana pergi la... die kate,
"siape die ajar mu pakai seluar ni... orang perempuan tak pakai seluar... org laki je pakai seluar... gi balik tuka.. tudung pun tak pakai... gi balik pakai tudung!"
ana pun baliklah umah atok dan mak pun tanye and ana pun ceritakanlah... lepas tu ana tak pasti apa yg jadi... tp terngiang-ngiang kata-kata ni, "tutup habis pun, hati dok molek sama gok... " ana tak ingat sape yg ckp tapi ana ingat ada org sebut ttg ni....
adik beradik abah yang perempuan dan kakak and adik ipar abah yg perempuan semuanya pakai purdah... tp logik la depa pakai.. mmg lawa-lawa semuanya... tok mek cakap, "mana la budak-budak ni dapat lawa-lawa macam tu.." hehehe... mak ngan abah sepupu, maka tidaklah menjadi isu... tp masa kat sekolah dulu, kawan-kawan selalu ckp, in fact cikgu2 pun ckp jugak, kalau kawin sepupu ni anak-anak byk masalah, lembap belaja, banyak penyakit... 'Allahualam...
td berenti sat.. pi umah durra, melawat die nak balik dah esok! byk jugak brg2 nye... harap semuanya ok2 saje ... ramai jugak yg ada td, budak2 blair, ilham and lan, even chinese friends pun datang.. nice of them...
surah An - Nisaa : 124 :: contoh 'adil' dalam Islam. rewards are given to both men and women who did good deed, and who are soleh and solehah... dan mereka tidak dianiaya walau sedikitpun...
surah An - Nisaa banyak bercakap ttg hak - hak wanita, pembahagian harta dan anak - anak selepas berlaku perceraian, hak - hak anak yatim dan lain-lain...
masih lg tak dapat kad raya dr sesiapa... record ni!
